5 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone

When writing articles about chivalry, romance, and relationships – one tends to learn quite a bit about people from comments, emails, and messages. One of the things that I have learned is a prominent issue, is the male race’s avoidance of kindness for fear of being seen as “just a friend.” Particularly when I come…

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The Truth: Do All Men Cheat?

The argument has been made that biologically, humans are not hardwired to be monogamous. We are simply evolved primates whose natural drive is to reproduce, and we all know it takes work to reproduce – the stork doesn’t just show up carrying a baby. This primal urge does overcome some people (this goes for men…

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Everyone Is In Somebody Else’s Friend Zone

I find the concept of the “friend zone” interesting because it is a term that feels like it should have been left back in elementary school with “cooties,” but has somehow transcended into modern American culture. Some people consistently express dissatisfaction with the term and say it is ridiculous, which I suppose in some ways…

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The Importance Of Class And The Modern Woman

If you have spent any time on this website before, you are aware that there are hundreds of articles discussing how modern men conduct ourselves, and how we can all work to become better and do better. What you will see substantially less of, is discussions about the modern woman and the very real, but…

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Ask JMS – Escaping The Friend Zone

After launching the Ask JMS section of this website, I have been overwhelmed by the inquiries received. This one in particular, submitted by “SV” caught my attention. The quoted message will be below, followed by my response. I am facing a situation and I wanted to get your opinion on it. There is this girl…

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Why You Should Always Do Nice Things For Girls

Some of you, the ones who have been reading this blog since its June 2013 inception, might recognize this title. This is a re-vamp of an article I wrote back then. It was one of the first articles I ever had published, and I wanted to give it an updated breath of life. My inspiration…

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5 Ways To Stay Out Of The Friend Zone

When writing articles about chivalry, romance, and relationships – one tends to learn quite a bit about people from comments, emails, and messages. One of the things that I have learned is a prominent issue, is the male race’s avoidance of kindness for fear of being seen as “just a friend.” I’ve been there, gentlemen…

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Getting girls vs. Keeping a woman.

A real man with depth and integrity will go out on the weekends to pick up girls be able to get, and hold the attention of an established, respectable woman with class. When it comes to ‘getting girls’ whether it be for a brief fling or a one night stand, you can be successful off of…

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How to approach a woman without getting slapped (Nightlife edition).

If you’re out in a loud bar, club, or lounge – it’s often difficult to start or carry on a decent conversation. This, mixed with alcohol, typically results in a guy’s primate instincts taking over and resorting to physical communication. The problem is, so many of them suck at it. There is no foolproof formula…

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Why It Doesn’t Matter When You Go “All The Way”

That’s right, I said it. For as long as I can remember, there has always been a terrible stereotype about girls who “put out” too soon. This could be the first, second, third, or however many dates she personally thinks are “right.” The words thrown at girls who do this are usually mean and unjustified.…

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