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Rejection has empowered me to do everything I've d

Rejection has empowered me to do everything I've done in this life.

Get socially rejected, build a social media audience of hundreds of thousands of people.

Get rejected from jobs, generate an income as a solopreneur.

Get rejected by major publications, become the #1 writer out of hundreds of thousands on major platforms, and generate over 40 million visitors to my own website.

Get rejected from book publishers, self publish a book.

Get rejected from speaking engagements, create my own events.

I have failed, fallen short, been broke, NEARLY quit - MANY, MANY times. And I still have lightyears to go before I'll feel secure in these accomplishments, but I've accepted that each future goal will be accomplished the same way the past ones have. Through simply refusing anything less.

I believe that we can choose to re-frame everything that happens to us into an opportunity and learning experience once we are able to move past the self-pity phase.

If you allow other people to decide what you're worth and what you're "allowed" to do, you'll always be operating within the confines of other people's permission.

If you choose your path for yourself, then there are no rules, no restrictions, and no limits

That is when you become Limitless.

Throwback...Tuesday? Accepting the award for Best

Throwback...Tuesday? Accepting the award for Best Male Actor/Model at the 2019 Boston Fashion Awards. Feels like a different life.

I much prefer the 50 degree car selfie to the 3 de

I much prefer the 50 degree car selfie to the 3 degree car selfie...just a few days apart. Thanks, global warming!

Beard was fun. Back to scruff...for now.

Beard was fun. Back to scruff...for now.

I took this 600 horsepower beast for a rip today a

It's 3°F this morning. 0/10 would not recommend.

It's 3°F this morning. 0/10 would not recommend. 🧊

One of my 2022 goals is to find more opportunities

One of my 2022 goals is to find more opportunities to dress like I did before the pandemic. 💁‍♂️🤵‍♂️ (pic from 2019)

Shirt: @boss

Why I own an Audi. And @continental_tire DWS 06+ t

Why I own an Audi. And @continental_tire DWS 06+ tires. A photo series.

@audi @audiofficial #AudiLife

2021 brought more life changes than I've ever expe

2021 brought more life changes than I've ever experienced...despite having moved across the country with a single suitcase in 2017...and yes, despite the pandemic that started in 2020 (2 years ago...? 🤯)

In 2021 I solidified my transition from bachelor to family man when the 3 girls moved in.

In 2021 I shifted my priorities from being self-centered to looking into the future and thinking of what's best for the 4 of us.

In 2021 I grew a giant beard and got my 4th tattoo. I've since trimmed the beard.

In 2021 I started looking for houses instead of exotic cars. Alright, well...both.

In 2021 I hit new highs in my coaching business.

In 2021 I spent every single day having an internal monologue about my identity and how it has forever shifted.

In 2021 I fell short MANY times.

In 2021 I stepped up MANY times.

In 2021 I became the #1 Love writer on all of @Medium.

In 2021 I found out what I was made of. Some of it I liked, some of it I didn't.

Now, here we are in 2022.

I always talk about how nothing changes when the date on the calendar shifts, and that will always be true. But we change as humans every day as we make new decisions and set new goals for ourselves.

My goals for 2022 are vastly different than any other year I've ever lived, and they will require a new JMS in order to reach them.

That's how personal evolution works. It's not about what you do, it's about WHO you become.

The new JMS won't be perfect. He'll mess up, and fail, and disappoint people - and himself.

But, he will also grow, learn, develop, and evolve.

He will become the man he needs to be in order to create the life he, and his family, should be living.

He will be a fucking lion. And a lion never backs down from a challenge.

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