This may be a bit of a ‘What came first, the chicken, or the egg?” scenario, but hear me out. There seems to be a direct correlation between men putting less effort into a relationship, and men having fewer responsibilities in said relationship. **EDIT** Judging by some comments received, I need to clarify further: I…
When I first started this website in 2013, I set out on the mission to help empower people to build the confidence they need to stop settling for less than they deserved. I also strove to help redefine the concept of what it means to be a gentleman in our modern era – as it…
Men don’t think women are open to being approached anymore, so I asked over 100,000 women for the truth.
I have long since held the position that someone who truly loves and cares for you, will never cheat on you. My personal belief is that cheating should be the end of a relationship – I know there are other writers and speakers out there who may advocate for giving a second chance for whatever…
“Wait, aren’t you the guy who says that men and women can’t be ‘just friends’?” Yep, that’s me. I have long held the (accurate) position that men and women are unable to be 100% platonic friends because a man’s biological programming will always bring thoughts into his head that escalate beyond friendship. Women are able to…
“Where are all of these gentlemen you talk about all the time?” When I started writing over 4 years ago, my mission was (and still is) to bring back the concept of men being gentlemen – and update what it really means in modern day society. Being respectful, chivalrous, aware, connected (to one’s self, and…
Men and women won’t be happy until we start seeing each other as teammates again.
What did you want to be when you were a kid? How did you envision your life unfolding? Maybe you wanted to be an astronaut, or a firefighter, or a professional wrestler or…whatever. Me? I wanted to be a race car driver, and an actor. A-la Patrick Dempsey. But alas, there is only one…
Relationships are perhaps our most valuable asset in life, besides time. And while there are many different types of relationships, the person we choose to commit ourselves to intimately, may be the most important decision you can make. While I’ve always said that the most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself, your significant other…
I am a big fan of social media. Without it, I’d have missed out on many transformative relationships, experiences, and opportunities throughout my life. I’m sure many of you can relate. But since nothing is perfect, there are parts of social media and the general direction of modern society that makes me cringe just a…
Have romance and courtship and chivalry been squashed by promoting equality between the genders? Of course we should all be treated with equal respect, but when does it start to blur the lines of gender roles in dating? Do gender roles actually make dating *better?* You do not want to miss this conversation. In this…
Ah, romance. The stuff seemingly only found in history books and black and white movies where men wore three-piece-suits and called women “darling.” An era not without flaws, of course, and it’s easy to see that society has evolved in strides even throughout the past few decades, but it’s arguable that not everything has been an…
