I’m going to be a bad millennial by writing this article, but I’m pretty good at being a bad millennial, so I’m cool with it. For the record, if you’re under 35, you’re still classified as a millennial. Sorry, 34 year olds. This is something I’ve been thinking about for awhile now though, and I…
As someone who speaks to people across the world every day about dating and relationships, I can confidently say there is a growing dissatisfaction with the “state of the date” these days – and – I probably didn’t have to tell you that. I didn’t have to tell you, because odds are you’ve been experiencing…
I’d like to start this off with a disclaimer. Of the 1,000 pieces of content (articles and videos) I’ve created over the past 4 years, 95% of them have been focused around women and how to help their dating challenges. This one, is about men. So, I would ask you to refrain from commenting things…
If you want easy, simple, or convenient, then dating these days is perfect for you. Some people may read this and immediately recoil at the idea of dating being ‘easy’ or ‘simple.’ They will rant about how things are so complicated now and how nobody wants any commitment and is just looking to hook up,…
Odds are, if you’re reading this, you have Tinder’d or Bumble’d Coffee-Meets-Bagle’d or Luxy’d or Raya’d until you’ve been numb in the thumbs. I know I have. If you can relate, that also means you might be falling into the same trap that a lot of different people seem to be caught in these days:…
Guys seem a bit confused these days. What does equality mean, exactly? Am I not supposed to pay for dinners or drinks anymore? I know she gets bombarded by comments on social media all the time, so can I no longer tell her she’s beautiful? Is she going to pepper-spray me if I say hello…
Want to learn how to attract women? It’s easy, really. You can go buy a book, watch videos, or spend endless amounts of your time memorizing lines or strategies or methods, so you can get her attention over the other guy. You can spend months in the gym until you’ve got the perfect 6-pack, and…
What came first, the chicken or the egg? You may be asking yourself what this question has to do with men putting more effort into dating, but stick with me for a second. As you may have noticed, we are slowly but surely devolving as a culture into the abyss of “that’s just the way…
Let’s face it – we often glorify the past without putting the full picture into focus. We do this with much of history, but more often than not, we do it with dating and relationships. We think about our parents’ and grandparents’ generations, and how they had that old school love. The kind of love…
Love. Romance. Courtship. Etiquette. Manners. What are these foreign concepts that seem to only be found in dusty pages of history books? We seem to have lost sight of what it takes to build real, solid, healthy relationships – and I believe that those of us who actually value them are feeling the pain.…
She was 19. I was 17. We were watching a movie downstairs at my parents’ house, as one does at that age. It was dark, only the light of the flickering big screen TV illuminated the room. We were snuggled in the corner of a big green suede couch. That’s when it happened. My very…
Words like ‘manners’ and ‘etiquette’ seem to be relics fantasized about in conversations of courtship and gallantry. But, they don’t have to be. The truth is that displaying good manners is a necessity in any area of life. This includes professional environments, and definitely in more personal environments, such as dating. Unfortunately, we seem to…
