Posts by James Michael Sama
Spark Conversation With These 35 Creative Questions
No more awkward silences! One of the most common things I hear from clients is that they avoid social interactions, dates, or even dating situations all together because they never know what to talk about. So, in this article I’m going to arm you with 35 conversation-sparking questions to ask the next time you’re stumped.…
Read More11 Things Women Want To Hear
(Hint: NOT how “hot” she is). What makes for a meaningful compliment? Most men, when complimenting women, resort to remarks about appearance or a victory in the genetic lottery based simply on luck. Women, particularly on social media, hear how beautiful they are all the time. Random men leave compliments on photos, send messages on…
Read MoreA Guy’s 11 Point Survival Guide To Dating Strong Women
Not for the feint of heart. Men are becoming increasingly confused as to what’s expected from them in dating, or when in an intimate relationship. For the first time in human history, we are navigating a landscape that no longer requires men to be ‘providers and protectors’ when in a relationship. I hear a lot…
Read MoreEmotionally Mature Men Enjoy These 7 Benefits
True fulfillment comes from within. Inner work has been defined as the psychological and spiritual practice of diving deep into your inner self for the purposes of self-exploration, self-understanding, healing, and spiritual transformation. I know, you’re a pragmatic and logical individual who avoids “woo-woo” like the plague — and I’m with you. I like things that I…
Read More10 Promises You Make When You Say “I Love You”
3 small words, many big meanings. The many meanings of “I love you.” The word ‘love’ takes on many different forms and meanings. There are casual ‘luv ya’ texts to a friend, the love we share between family members, the love we have for a best friend, and then there is the deep, intimate love we…
Read MoreThe Solutions To 10 Common Relationship Problems
Fix it, don’t throw it away. Not all relationships are meant to last, but they can teach and prepare you for the one that does. In this article we’ll discuss 10 of the major reasons why relationships end, and what you can do to overcome them — either now — or in the future. 1: You expected your relationship to…
Read MoreAre You “Nice,” Or Kind? 5 Major Differences
Only one has pure intentions. e’ve all heard the old adage that “nice guys (and gals) finish last.” I’ve been very open about my past as a “nice guy” and all of the challenges that it brought to my life. To overcome these challenges, I didn’t need to stop being good to people, I simply…
Read MoreTo Love Her Right, Do These 10 Things
Love isn’t just an emotion, it’s a state of being. The points in this article are designed to help you gain a greater understanding of how to express and explore your love for your partner in ways that she feels on a deeper level than ever before. 1: Start fresh. First thing’s first, you’re probably going…
Read MoreMen Who Are Ready For Love Do These 9 Things
It’s not about age…it’s about maturity. As we grow through phases of life, priorities change, as does what we feel ready to step into. We all become ready for different things at different times. A serious career, a serious relationship, or maybe even a family. It’s important to understand that there is no “right” or…
Read MoreThe Most Attractive People Do These 11 Things
Hint: It’s not about your looks. What does it mean to “be attractive?” I’ve always wondered this myself, because it seemed like something that some people just were, while others weren’t. Like it was a gift, magically bestowed upon a few select people who we all were all drawn to as a result. By attractive,…
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