Posts by James Michael Sama

The Right Relationship Will NEVER Make You Sacrifice Your Identity

I’m going to be as brutally clear as possible in this post. No fluff. No introduction. No sugar-coating. A relationship should be a consistent evaluation of the person you are committing to. You should 100% and absolutely be able to envision a future with them and COMMIT to building it. But, you should ALSO be…

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5 Reasons Men Succeed at Work but Fail in Relationships

Why do you think so many traditionally successful men have failed relationships or problems connecting with women? Men, biologically, are programmed to be hunters and providers. Our self worth (incorrectly) often rests on what we make, what we have, the value we bring. This puts many men on a path of chasing external validation and accomplishments. A good job,…

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If Happiness is Your Goal, You’ve Got the Wrong Goal

Ah, the pursuit of happiness. Life, liberty, and all that. This may be a bit controversial, but hear me out. Finding or creating happiness should not actually be your ultimate goal in life. “But James, why?!” Well, I’m glad you asked. You don’t need to hear this from me or anyone else because you’ve experienced…

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