Posts by James Michael Sama
12 Green Flags Of An Emotionally Mature Man
Emotional maturity is the result of life experiences and intentional growth that bring a man on a path of personal evolution. It empowers him to show up in the world (and in his relationships) as the healthiest and most authentic version of himself. The challenge often lies in knowing just who has actually done this…
Read MoreProject Even Higher Confidence By Eliminating These 10 Behaviors
What makes someone “high value?” It’s not rooted in how much they make, or what they look like, how many friends they have, or their relationship status…High value people simply decide to recognize their own worth and show up in the world accordingly. They project their confidence in their own value through the things they…
Read MoreThe Most Attractive Men Understand These 10 Things
Men are more confused now than ever before when it comes to dating — and who can blame them? Men’s roles in virtually all areas of life are shifting, which presents some uncertainty. In a world where women are outperforming and out-earning men more and more frequently, where is the value that men bring to their lives…
Read MoreCouples Who Stay Together Forever Do These 10 Things
Photo: Mrs. Rachel Sama and Mr. James Michael Sama If I asked you to think about the happiest couples you know, who pops into your mind first? For me, it’s quite obviously my parents who’ve been happily together for over 40 years, and also my late grandparents who were together for over 60 years. I…
Read More15 Unspoken Worries That Men Keep Hidden
Men have a reputation for being generally stoic, unemotional, non-expressive, and disconnected from their feelings. In most cases, though, this is the opposite of the truth. The truth isn’t men’s lack of feelings, but instead, the lack of expression of these feelings. There are a myriad of social and biological reasons why men more commonly…
Read MoreWhen You Find A Woman With These Qualities – Marry Her
(Photo: Rachel Sama and James Michael Sama) We are all looking for something different when it comes to a partner — especially someone we’ll consider spending the rest of our life with. I do think, though, that there are some universal qualities that men desire in the woman who they love more than the idea of being…
Read MoreEvery Relationship Needs These 5 Types Of Intimacy
Happy and healthy relationships are multi-faceted. They require two people to intertwine their lives, their hearts, their minds, and souls in order to live a harmonious and thriving life together. Such a complex endeavor must be intentional and requires full dedication from both partners. Dedication that brings us to the table every single day with…
Read More10 Important Signs Of True SELF-Love
We’ve all heard it before: The term “self-love.” But how many of us understand what it truly means? Or how it really feels? Loving yourself is simpler than it seems. It’s reflected in your daily actions and habits, the standards you set for yourself, and the treatment you accept — both from you, and from others. Let’s…
Read More10 Simple Needs Men Have In Relationships
My focus as a writer, speaker, and coach has always been to help men better understand the women in their lives (despite many of my clients being women themselves) and to evolve into better boyfriends, husbands, colleagues, and human beings. As a result, the literally thousands of articles I’ve written over the years (right here…
Read More6 Traits Of Mentally Strong People
What does it mean to be “strong?” We hear it all the time — they’re a “strong person,” and we’re usually not talking about physical strength at the time. Mental strength is arguably even more difficult to build because it requires emotional trials and tribulations. When you do establish it, though, you recognize different actions and traits…
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