Please Help Nominate JamesMSama.com For A Shorty Award!

Hi everyone, I am not the type of person to write blog posts about myself or ask for favors – I would much rather provide you with valuable content and hope that I have been doing just that! Because of this, I am humbled to have been nominated for a Shorty Award in the Blogger category,…

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The Gentleman’s Four Step Guide To Personal Style

Having grown up just outside of the city of Boston, I have been able to humbly brag about the praises showered upon us by magazines such as GQ. Boston is frequently #1 on their lists, and who could ever be upset about that? Well…that depends on what the list is for. Boston is, repeatedly, GQ’s #1…

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7 Do’s And Don’ts Of The Confident Woman

There are many things which enhance the power of a woman. A sparking personality, quick wit, developed intellect, impeccable style… But above all, a woman’s confidence can be one of her most powerful assets. Her confidence shows through everything. It speaks louder than the shoes she wears, the places she travels, and sometimes even louder than…

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Everyone Is In Somebody Else’s Friend Zone

I find the concept of the “friend zone” interesting because it is a term that feels like it should have been left back in elementary school with “cooties,” but has somehow transcended into modern American culture. Some people consistently express dissatisfaction with the term and say it is ridiculous, which I suppose in some ways…

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One Simple Way To Be A Better Boyfriend

I had a conversation over dinner last night with someone about an interesting issue that I knew was floating around, but I wasn’t sure of just how many people fall victim to it. Now, it is an easier problem to solve for some rather than others, given that we are all naturally better at certain…

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Why Not Everyone Deserves Your Love

Take a moment to reflect on the society that we are living in. A society of participation trophies – awards for just showing up. A society of some high school football teams who have stopped keeping scores at games so nobody’s feelings get hurt. A society of endless internet memes that proclaim that everyone deserves…

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Modern Relationships And The Future Of Dating

This is a guest post by a fantastic writer and blogger, Anastasia Podolskaya. I recently met Anastasia at an event in Boston and we started talking about how similar the themes of my blog and her blog are (You can check hers out here). She has some great things to say and I wanted to…

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Quality Over Quantity – How To Attract The Right Woman

In previous posts, we’ve discussed what women can do to attract the type of man they want, but finding a woman of quality and class is an equally challenging undertaking for the modern man. A midst the ‘hookup generation,’ it may seem as though hope is lost. The women of today are only to be…

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10 Style Essentials Every Man Should Own

When it comes to “essentials” in men’s style, there are many different opinions on the topic. I try to mix together classic details with an edgy, modern style. To make this look happen, there are a few things that should be in your arsenal.   1. A Tie Bar. Often overlooked, a tie bar is…

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How To Attract The Man You Want

In previous blog posts I have explained why we shouldn’t let chivalry die, how to spot a player, and even how to approach a woman without getting slapped. I will be speaking more on the general cluelessness of men in dating these days in upcoming posts – but first, women, you have to understand that…

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