Here’s Why Ignoring Our Biology is Hurting Our Relationships

Buckle up, ladies and gents. This could get bumpy. Here’s a disclaimer for those of you who are finding my writing for the first time: For just over 5 years, I have been a public voice across the U.S. encouraging men to do better when it comes to dating and relationships. I write and speak…

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5 warning signs your work life is hurting your relationship with her

We all desire success. We stay focused and work hard, but at what point does our professional life interfere with our personal life? If we are in a relationship, is there a line to be drawn when work begins to overflow into romance? It is important for many reasons to keep a healthy work/life (or…

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The 8 Pillars of Being an Attractive Man

Consider for a moment the differences in process between hunting and fishing. I don’t participate in either, but I think we all understand that one requires a more proactive approach, while the other is better suited to those who have the right ‘bait’ they can cast into an area and see which fish they can…

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7 brutal truths about why you’re not attracting good men

There are multiple forms of this quote attributed to multiple sources, but the most poignant one goes like this: “The truth will set you free, but first, it will piss you off.” When you look for dating advice online, you have two choices: Find advice that makes you comfortable. Find advice that gives you the…

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How To Date Any Woman You Want, Get 6-Pack Abs, and Triple Your Salary

In just 8 easy steps.

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11 Things She Wants You to do in a Relationship

It is often discussed how difficult it is to understand women. While many times this may seem to be the case, I don’t think it necessarily has to be. I think we all are hard to understand sometimes – we even have a hard time understanding ourselves. I know I do. Particularly in today’s society, men are confused.…

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On The Nakedness of Our Mortality

This was originally a post on my Instagram page, but the comments were so overwhelming that I wanted to share it here on this blog. On the nakedness of mortality. A year and a half ago, my grandfather passed at 90 years old. Since he was living with my parents, I would visit often and…

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5 Types of Men You Should Never Date (And One You Definitely Should)

Dating is a trial and error process. A “numbers game” so to speak. One of the only ways to determine what type of person you really want to be with, is to be with people who aren’t completely right for you. But, there are ways to avoid unnecessary heartache and skip over the wrong types…

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Here’s Why Playing Hard to Get is Actually a Terrible Idea

You’ve probably been told more than once to play hard to get when it comes to dating. You’ve probably been told that men love the chase so you shouldn’t give back too much in return. Do you know what a chase is? It’s when you’re pursuing something that’s actively running away from you. Men who chase women are often men…

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5 Disappointing (But Real) Reasons Why He Ghosted You

Disclaimer: This will probably piss you off. Only continue if you want the blunt truth. Overall, technology is a great thing. It allows us to become educated on literally anything we are interested in. We can stay informed, we can connect with anyone across the globe, and we can improve our lives in a variety…

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