Posts Tagged ‘single’

Single? 5 Things You Must Do Before Your Next Relationship

Make sure you’ve got a clean slate. You’ve faced heartbreak — we’ve all been there. Maybe it was recent, or maybe it’s been awhile since you’ve gotten back out there. Either way, one thing is for certain… You’re wondering why the next time will be any different than the last, especially if you’ve faced a string of…

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On The Power of Singledom

As someone who has spent the past 5 years writing about dating and encouraging people to bring romance and dignity back to relationships, I have frequently been met with consistent pushback that sounds something like this: There are no good people left in the world. Nobody wants to put in any effort anymore. I’ve accepted…

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5 Tips For Optimizing Your Online Dating Profile

Whether it is through direct work with clients, or through discussions on social media, I always find that one topic is a universal standard when it comes to talking about dating: Online dating. Online dating has really shifted the standards of dating – but it doesn’t have to be all bad. A lot of people think…

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Why You Should Always Do Nice Things For Girls

Some of you, the ones who have been reading this blog since its June 2013 inception, might recognize this title. This is a re-vamp of an article I wrote back then. It was one of the first articles I ever had published, and I wanted to give it an updated breath of life. The message…

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5 Reasons Being Single Is A Good Thing

For some, it is difficult to feel single and empowered. Single and complete. Single and fulfilled. But the reality of it is, there are plenty of ways to live a happy single life. This realization usually only comes when we understand that happiness depends on ourselves and not someone else’s approval of us. But it’s…

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8 Ways To Make Dating Better

It seems that more and more about our society is literally engineering the demise of dating for the sake of actually getting to know another person, and turning the whole idea into a game of how fast you can get them into bed…and then move on. Sure, many of us go through phases where we…

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Why Selfish People Can Never Truly Love

There are many perceptions of what “true love” looks like in today’s society. People attempt to quantify it or put characteristics or actions or labels on it – but it is a difficult thing to define since every situation is unique. Though, once we filter through all of the pop culture interpretations and checklists of…

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The Real Reason Smarter Women Stay Single Longer

I was recently sent an article titled “Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single.” Well, alrighty…but why? The article cites multiple sources such as this, this, and this, to justify its sweeping generalities of both men and women. For men, it is asserted in so many words that we…

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The Secret To Finding Better People

Lately, my city has been impressing me. I have found myself at some great events at beautiful venues I never knew existed, and meeting amazing people. This, after I have had the audacity to speak about how small and repetitive Boston can be. It makes me think about how people say that there are no…

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7 Ways To Live A Happy Single Life

There are just as many happy, fulfilled, single people you will encounter as there are unhappy and undervalued people who are in a relationship. One “title” you are assigned by your choices does not change your level of internal happiness. Unfortunately, our society helps to perpetuate the idea that if you are single, you are…

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