Posts by James Michael Sama
The Official 50 Shades Of Grey Movie Trailer
Unless you’ve been completely disconnected from modern society, you are probably aware of the 50 Shades Of Grey phenomenon launched into motion by the bestselling book. To help women across the globe visualize the fantasies put forth in the book, the writing has been translated to filmography. The long awaited movie trailer has finally been…
Read MoreThe Evolution Of Monogamy
I think it’s safe to say that we are all aware that we live in a society with an astronomically high divorce rate (something above 60%?), TMZ telling us which celebrity had an affair this week, social media newsfeed stories about couples breaking up, getting back together, fighting, breaking up again, and it goes on. Yet…when…
Read MoreWhat NOT To Do If Your Wife Won’t Have Sex With You
If you haven’t heard by now, there is a Excel spreadsheet floating around the internet that a 26 year old man sent to his 26 year old wife. The spreadsheet chronicled the previous six weeks of their relationship, how many times he attempted to initiate having sex, and all of the reasons why she declined.…
Read MoreHey, I Like Your Stuff
We are at a party on a roofdeck in the middle of Boston. It’s beautiful. Like, the kind of place you see in the movies, beautiful. The guy who owns this penthouse is spectacularly successful and is close with my new favorite people in Boston who run these events, The Good Ones. Everyone is dressed…
Read MoreDon’t Just Go Through Relationships, Grow Through Relationships
Breakups happen every day. Some people get back together, some don’t. Sometimes it’s a mutual feeling, sometimes it’s not. Sometimes you’re the one who wants it to end, sometimes you’re not. And sometimes, neither person wants it to, it’s just by virtue of circumstances or the situation at hand. You are going to get hurt, in…
Read MoreThe Importance Of Class And The Modern Woman
If you have spent any time on this website before, you are aware that there are hundreds of articles discussing how modern men conduct ourselves, and how we can all work to become better and do better. What you will see substantially less of, is discussions about the modern woman and the very real, but…
Read More5 Steps To Becoming More Charismatic
When it comes to dating, one of the more desirable qualities a man can possess is what most of us would call charisma. But charisma is more of an umbrella term that encompasses a collection of different habits and qualities, rather than just being a self-standing one on its own. In our quest as men to develop into…
Read More10 Qualities Of A Desirable Man
In a society flooded with articles, social media updates, dating advice magazines, and hardly ever enough mental down-time to slow down and reset – we are left overloaded on information about “what to do,” but hardly enough insight on who to be. Especially as men, all of the “advice” out there is how to talk…
Read MoreThe Simple Way To Get Men To Put In More Effort
The other day I had a conversation with the guys about how to give women better compliments. How to be better, and do better. This article is a whisper in the ear of all of my female readers. We are slowly but surely devolving as a culture into the abyss of “that’s just the way things…
Read MoreThe 3 Types Of Girlfriends Men Can Have
I have been fortunate enough to be invited to some spectacular events around the city of Boston over the past couple of weeks. The best part about this is the conversations I get to have with people far more intelligent than myself from all walks of life. Last night, I had a great discussion with…
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