5 Reasons You Should Never Settle

As I sit here to write this article, I’m in a hotel room overlooking the beach. The waves sound so close you feel like you can put your hand out the window and touch them. Next to me on the table is this month’s copy of Esquire, the cover of which is beckoning us with…

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Are You Happy, Or Just Comfortable?

I feel there are many things we can learn from having a pet. I have always been a dog person myself. My family has a beautiful English Labrador named Logan. Just like everyone else’s dog is to them, he is the “cutest, best dog in the world.” But more than companionship, Logan can teach us…

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7 Reasons You Think Relationships Suck

People often ask me where I get the ideas for some of the articles I write. The truth is, a lot of the time, you’ve got to find inspiration in the un-inspirational. People who complain or are negative can often make you say “hey, it really shouldn’t be that way, and I want to say…

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Most Girls Aren’t Ready For A Good Man

I recently came across a very interesting article titled “Most Women Don’t Deserve A Good Man” and posted it on Facebook for discussion. By the way, there is a reason I used “girls” in my title rather than “women.” While reading through the article, I was reminded of my days of frequenting and working as…

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10 Things More Important Than Beauty

We live in a society that reminds us of beauty every single day. Advertisements of beautiful people, television shows with beautiful people, commercials with beautiful people, beautiful people around us… Even I post photos of beautiful people in my articles. Aesthetically pleasing individuals draw us towards them visually. They make products look better, and make…

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7 Reasons Caring Is A Strength

In today’s society, it often seems as though being cold towards others is seen as being “strong,” and showing feelings and emotions is equivalent to being “weak,” especially for men. People say if you don’t care then you’ll never get hurt, and if you hold no expectations for people, you’ll never be disappointed. While, in…

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5 Things Men Can Learn From James Bond

There are men in the world who show us on national TV what not to do, such as the latest Bachelor, Juan Pablo, and then there are men, even fictional men, we can learn from. In a recent Facebook discussion, I asked: What fictional character, either in literature or movies, do you feel best embodies the idea…

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7 Reasons She Won’t Go Out With You

As these articles about chivalry and romance spread farther and farther, I find myself faced with more and more objections from men about how they do everything I mention, but it still “gets them nowhere” with women. This, of course, means they’re not getting what they want from said woman/women – a date or a…

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5 Things Men Can Learn From Juan Pablo

Regardless of your personal opinions towards the ABC show “The Bachelor,” and even if you’ve never seen a single episode, odds are you’ve come across a post or two about the debacle that was this past season’s bachelor, Juan Pablo Galavis. Anyone who watched “After The Final Rose” understands the tense awkwardness that permeated the…

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5 Times You Shouldn’t Help Her

As humans, we have a natural instinct to be protective of those we love. Whether it be a significant other or a family member. This instinct makes us want to help when we can. To offer guidance or solutions – but sometimes, this isn’t the best course of action to take. As men, we need…

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