Posts Tagged ‘relationships’
Here’s Everything You Need to Know About Someone Before Committing to Them
“I’m just getting to know them,” you tell your friends or family as you describe someone’s hobbies, or routines, or career path. You start to spend time around their friends and family, you do a couple of sleepovers, you start getting attached to their dog. For some people in modern society, that’s enough to start…
Read More20 Things You Deserve in Your Love Life
It’s hard to define what you deserve in life and in love. It requires a strong sense of self-worth, high standards, and solid boundaries. Those might be difficult for you to get clear on if you’ve not really dug into your wants, needs, desires, and identity. What is it that you really deserve from a…
Read More20 Vital Lessons About How Women Think
Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. While, of course, the world’s 8 billion people each hold an individual set of traits and personalities, that doesn’t mean we can’t find some common truths that apply on…
Read MoreModern Chivalry: Dating Rules of High-Status Men
Times change, and along with them: Social norms change. Technology changes. Acceptable behavior changes (sometimes for better, sometimes for worse), and basically, well, everything changes. We’ve rightfully left behind a lot from our past as our society has evolved and become more conscious about our actions…but the past wasn’t all bad. There are still lessons…
Read MoreThese 15 Conversations Will Decide Your Future as a Couple
I’ve noticed a trend lately in conversations with my private clients, their relationships split apart because they overlooked or ignored red flags or incompatibilities early on in their relationships. I have long made the point that the small things we overlook in the beginning of a relationship are very often the exact things that come…
Read More30 Simple Ways to Become an Amazing Romantic Partner
What does it mean to be a “good partner”? Whether you are a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, spouse, significant other, or [enter term of choice here], most of the same principles apply. It comes down to the simple things. The ways that we listen, pay attention to detail, remember important things, and make the…
Read MoreThe Most Confident People Tell Themselves These 15 Things
Who‘s writing the story of your life? I mean really, honestly, truly…who’s got the pen? Is it you? Or, is it the multitude of voices in your ear every single day from society and the people around you? Are your thoughts, beliefs, and values really yours, or are they simply modified versions of what you’ve…
Read More15 Defining Traits of Good Men
When I first started writing on here (way) back in 2013, I was focused on these missions: To help men become even better versions of themselves. To help them understand relationships and attraction. To help them gain confidence, and to stop living in the shadows of others. Now, more than a decade, 40 million+ views…
Read More12 Things You Deserve in Your Relationship
How deeply do you believe that you truly deserve the love, intimacy, and treatment that you desire in a relationship? It’s one thing to want it, but it’s a whole other to really believe that you deserve it. The challenge lies in that no amount of wanting will replace the knowledge of deserving. Only when you understand what you deserve, will you change your…
Read MoreHere’s How Men Can Find Their Way Again
I’ve never fit in. Starting from childhood and my first years in school, I experienced bullying, challenges making friends, and as I got older…had absolutely zero success with dating and relationships. The irony of now being a top love and relationship writer, and building a 10+ year career as a private advisor in these areas,…
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