Will The ‘Hookup Generation’ Ruin Our Future?

As a 20-something year old male who used to work in nightlife in a fairly major American city, I’ve observed, and learned more from the “hookup culture” than I’d care to admit. But, it does make you think. It makes you wonder, is this the way things are going to be now? Instead of looking…

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What Confidence Looks Like (Part 2 – Women)

There are many things which enhance the attractiveness of a woman. A sparking personality, quick wit, developed intellect, impeccable style… But above all, a woman’s confidence can be one of her most powerful assets. Her confidence shows through everything. It speaks louder than the shoes she wears, the places she travels, and sometimes even louder…

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The Reason Why Relationships Fade

Do you remember the first few months of your relationship? When the sparks were flying and you couldn’t keep your hands off of each other? But now, you find yourself going through the motions, no longer as excited as you were to see him/her, seemingly just passing time. It doesn’t have to be that way.…

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The Thing Girls Need To Stop Doing – Now.

Listen, I get it. Women want to (and should be) taken seriously and respected. Anyone who has read any of my previous blog posts knows that that’s my position on the situation. Unfortunately, so many of them are going about it the wrong way. Not a day goes by that I don’t see a girl who proudly…

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Why We Shouldn’t Let Chivalry Die.

If I’m not seeing people talk about chivalry being dead, I’m seeing them talk about how it should be dead because it’s demeaning to women. I respectfully, but vehemently, degree with both of these statements. Firstly, if even just one man continues on being chivalrous, it may be endangered, but not dead. I’ll bear this weight…

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Getting girls vs. Keeping a woman.

A real man with depth and integrity will go out on the weekends to pick up girls be able to get, and hold the attention of an established, respectable woman with class. When it comes to ‘getting girls’ whether it be for a brief fling or a one night stand, you can be successful off of…

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How to approach a woman without getting slapped (Nightlife edition).

If you’re out in a loud bar, club, or lounge – it’s often difficult to start or carry on a decent conversation. This, mixed with alcohol, typically results in a guy’s primate instincts taking over and resorting to physical communication. The problem is, so many of them suck at it. There is no foolproof formula…

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A Response To: ‘Confessions Of A Serial Cheater’

A friend linked me to this (borderline ridiculous) article, Confessions of a Serial Cheater, that I was compelled to respond to. Where do I begin? The anonymous (for good reason) storyteller begins by openly discussing his consistent cheating habit. The first (of 10? 15? Maybe 20?) time he cheated on his current fiancee started with…

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Developing trust in a relationship.

Distrust in a relationship is like termites in a house that slowly eat away at the foundation until the entire thing collapses. The literal definition of trust is: Reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence. Obviously, this doesn’t happen overnight, and there are a few warning signs to spot someone who may not be being entirely honest with you. Pay close…

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Why You Shouldn’t Give Up On Love

Love hurts. Love stinks. Love sucks. …No, it doesn’t. Being betrayed, cheated on, lied to, broken up with, thinking someone is different than they are – those things all suck. Love, does not. Our generation has a considerably difficult time finding love. Many times they find a hookup at a club that lasts for a few…

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