How Poor Communication Leads To Unhappy Relationships

My belief is that many relationship issues or breakups are often caused by either lack of communication, or doing it ineffectively. Men and women communicate differently, and we are not often taught how the opposite sex communicates with us, nor are we taught how to better communicate with them. This, as one can imagine, is…

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10 Signs He Might Be The One

It’s hard enough in today’s dating world to find someone that you even want to see more than a few times…so it seems nearly impossible to be able to determine if someone could actually be “the one” for you, right? It may not be as difficult as you think. Happy relationships aren’t just about the…

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5 Damaging Mindsets Keeping You From Happiness

As I close in on the two year anniversary of starting this website, I have had countless conversations with people who are in all phases of life. Men, women, boys, girls, single, married, divorced, and everything in between. When you really stop to listen and pay attention, there are many lessons to be taken away…

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Why You Should Date A Woman Who Balances You Out

Life is about balance. A balance between work and social life. A balance between saving money and enjoying yourself. A balance between eating healthy and having that extra slice of pizza. And, a balance between partners in a relationship. I feel as though many times, we hear that ‘opposites attract.’ Either that or we talk…

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10 Signs He’s Just Not That Into You

I have received many an email from women asking me about the way a man is acting and what it might mean, or not mean. More often than not, women who are doubting the feelings of the man in their life, are usually right. Meaning, if he’s just not that into you, you will probably…

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View James Michael Sama’s Shorty Award Campaign Video!

Hey all! As you have probably seen by now floating around on social media, I am honored to be nominated for a Shorty Award for the second year in a row! I feel that this is an important award for this blog to be recognized for, because the value of these messages and articles being…

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11 Reasons Good Men Won’t Cheat

Cheating in a relationship is, of course, not monopolized by either gender. Men cheat, women cheat, and according to studies, they have different reasons for doing so. I don’t think we can necessarily just say “men cheat for this reason, and women cheat for this reason,” though. Each individual person and scenario brings about a…

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Power Couple: 10 Traits Men Need To Handle Strong Women

One of the biggest complaints I get these days from women is about men who tend to slowly back away after they realize how strong and independent the woman they are dating is. Now, I am well aware that many women out there confuse being strong with abrasive, and independent with apathetic. Meaning, they take…

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When You Find This Type Of Woman, Never Let Her Go

For today’s generation of men, finding the type of woman we can picture ourselves in a long term relationship with, marrying, and building a family with, can be a long and tiring one. Sometimes, discouraging. But it is important for us to understand that good women, while hard to find, are out there. The same can be…

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Three Small Words That Will Improve Your Relationships

Many people read through my articles or see what I post on Facebook or Twitter and tell me that they wish their relationship could be “like that.” They tell me the expectations I set for individuals and couples are unrealistic. That nobody is really that happy. That romance and chivalry are just…dead. To all of you, absorb this:…

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