Every Day Should Be Valentine’s Day

Each year, around the middle of February, stores like CVS and Walgreen’s become overrun with wandering men holding boxes of chocolates and little teddy bears, because, well, that’s just what you do on Valentine’s Day… …right? Commercial holidays like Valentine’s Day do their best to manufacture romance. Restaurants fill up, prices of roses go through…

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5 Dating “Rules” You Should Break

Since when did the dating process become a science experiment? There are no set constants or variables that can predict an outcome. If you change X, you do not automatically get Y. We are complex, emotional creatures who all react positively and negatively to different circumstances, and the only way to learn what each other…

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8 Things Happy Couples Don’t Do

Sometimes, building a solid healthy relationship isn’t just about what partners do, but what they don’t do. Here are 8 things that you won’t find in the habits of happy couples. Discourage each other. Two people who love and care for each other would never attempt to discourage their partner or hold them back in…

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8 Acts Of Chivalry To Bring Back

The more women I talk to, the more I realize that the gentleman is a rare breed. The mission of the New Chivalry Movement is to bring men (and women) together who strive to be the best versions of themselves and love and respect those around them. As the gentleman has become less prominent, so have…

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5 Signs You Might Be Settling

As a man, I hold myself to a certain standard for how I treat (all) women, and especially my girlfriend and those close to me. Because of this, I can’t help but be a bit perturbed when I see or hear about examples of mistreatment for no reason. Nobody should ever have to settle for…

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5 Signs You Might Be Settling

As a man, I hold myself to a certain standard for how I treat (all) women, and especially my girlfriend and those close to me. Because of this, I can’t help but be a bit perturbed when I see or hear about examples of mistreatment for no reason. Nobody should ever have to settle for…

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A Letter To The Nice Guys

Dear Nice Guys, I write this to you as a former member of your tribe. I still consider myself a “good guy,” as reflected in my beliefs, writings, and actions – but that is a different animal, as we will discuss. You probably spend much of your time wondering why you remain single after doing…

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Your Most Important Relationship

Growing up, we are exposed to fairy tales and love stories. Grand romantic gestures and transcending life challenges for two people to be together. Ending up “alone” is consistently portrayed as a negative, and riding off into the sunset with your soul mate is shown to be the supposed goal for all of us. Sure,…

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10 Signs You Need To Break Up

I am often approached with questions regarding how someone is acting in a relationship. I also hear and observe stories about people who are generally unhappy, and some of them are heartbreaking. I understand any life change is difficult, especially break ups. There are circumstances involved, kids, apartments, maybe a pet, friendship with family members,…

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5 Ways To Woo Her

So, gentlemen, here we are. We find ourselves within a society of our peers who desperately try to set themselves apart in order to win the attention, and hopefully the love of a woman. The challenge here is that if we all say that we’re different from the others, all it does is make us…

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