If You Deserve More From Men, Stop Accepting Less

What came first, the chicken or the egg? You may be asking yourself what this question has to do with men putting more effort into dating, but stick with me for a second. As you may have noticed, we are slowly but surely devolving as a culture into the abyss of “that’s just the way…

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5 Signs You’re Settling For Less Than You Deserve

As a man, I hold myself to a certain standard for how I treat (all) women, and especially those close to me. Because of this, I can’t help but be a bit perturbed when I see or hear about examples of mistreatment that could be avoided. Nobody should ever settle for less than they deserve…

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The #1 Cause of Cheating in Relationships

Cheating. Infidelity. Disloyalty. Untrustworthiness (is that a word?) Whatever you want to call it, cheating in relationships seems to almost be par for the course these days. We often talk about how difficult it is to find happy, healthy, solid relationships in our society – and there are many different sets of circumstances that get…

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The Gentleman’s Guide To Dating: How To Be a Man in a Sea of Boys

In a world where chivalry and courtship seem to be the stuff of history books, and men complain that they shouldn’t have to pay for dinner if women want equality – it is plain to see that we need to bring some dignity back to dating and relationships. My belief is that there are so many…

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Everyone Wants a Relationship, Nobody Wants the Work

I’m sure I am not the only one who browses Facebook and quite often comes across photos of engagement rings and ultrasounds and changed last names from marriages and thinks to himself: Wait, weren’t you just single? Everything seems to move faster these days, naturally. We have instant text messages and don’t need to send…

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10 Important Traits of a Great Relationship

Perfection, as we know, is not attainable. One of the reasons why it’s not attainable is that it has a different meaning for everyone. What one person defines as “perfection” could be completely different from another. Furthermore, perfection doesn’t allow room for real life. It doesn’t allow room for personality, for nuances, for the very…

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3 Small Words That Will Revolutionize Your Dating Life

Are you tired of “Hey, wanna hang out?” texts passing off as date invitations? Are you tired of guys just not putting in any effort anymore? Are you tired of not feeling like a priority? These 3 small words will revolutionize your dating life.

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One Easy Way to Tell if a Guy is Into You

We can spend all day long talking about ways to know a man is interested in you, but in the long run, there is only ONE thing that actually matters. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!

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The Lost Value of Commitment

Ah, commitment. When we think of commitment in relation to today’s relationships, we primarily think it means being with one person. Monogamy. Not cheating. You are committed to that person. I think, though, it is a word that is thrown around too easily. Much like how we ‘love’ people we barely know and ‘hate’ people…

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To Understand Women, Understand Yourself

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus, eh? From a young age we are taught that men and women fundamentally speak different languages and see the world differently. While this is true in many ways, it leaves us searching externally for ways to understand these foreign creatures – most times, to no avail. It’s…

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