10 Ways Men Show Their Love Without Speaking

Pay attention to actions over words – words can be dishonest, actions can’t.

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If He Doesn’t Make You Feel Invincible, He’s Not the Man For You

A lot of us have developed a bit of a ‘list’ over the years. A list of qualities we want the person our significant other to have. Maybe we want them to be ambitious, or athletic, or blonde, or tall(ish), or dress a certain way. We develop what we consider to be our ‘type’ over…

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Stop Worrying, Guys. Turns Out Women ARE Open to Being Approached

Men don’t think women are open to being approached anymore, so I asked over 100,000 women for the truth.

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You Can’t Have The Fairy Tale, But You Can Have Prince Charming

“Where are all of these gentlemen you talk about all the time?” When I started writing over 4 years ago, my mission was (and still is) to bring back the concept of men being gentlemen – and update what it really means in modern day society. Being respectful, chivalrous, aware, connected (to one’s self, and…

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5 Ways To Define What You (Really) Want in a Relationship

Relationships are perhaps our most valuable asset in life, besides time. And while there are many different types of relationships, the person we choose to commit ourselves to intimately, may be the most important decision you can make. While I’ve always said that the most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself, your significant other…

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5 Ways Modern Society is Crushing Romance

Ah, romance. The stuff seemingly only found in history books and black and white movies where men wore three-piece-suits and called women “darling.” An era not without flaws, of course, and it’s easy to see that society has evolved in strides even throughout the past few decades, but it’s arguable that not everything has been an…

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The New School Romance Podcast: Is Chivalry Dead?

In the premiere episode of New School Romance, host James Michael Sama discusses widespread frustrations with the state of dating in today’s day and age. Are chivalry and romance dead? Are they ever coming back? Should we even work to bring them back? And, if so, how do these things look in modern society compared to…

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10 Uncomfortable Truths about Relationships Nobody Wants to Admit

If you want easy, simple, or convenient, then dating these days is perfect for you. Some people may read this and immediately recoil at the idea of dating being ‘easy’ or ‘simple.’ They will rant about how things are so complicated now and how nobody wants any commitment and is just looking to hook up,…

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The Best Dating App is Called “Life”

Odds are, if you’re reading this, you have Tinder’d or Bumble’d Coffee-Meets-Bagle’d or Luxy’d or Raya’d until you’ve been numb in the thumbs. I know I have. If you can relate, that also means you might be falling into the same trap that a lot of different people seem to be caught in these days:…

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The Advice Nobody Gives You About Attracting Women

Want to learn how to attract women? It’s easy, really. You can go buy a book, watch videos, or spend endless amounts of your time memorizing lines or strategies or methods, so you can get her attention over the other guy. You can spend months in the gym until you’ve got the perfect 6-pack, and…

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