8 Lessons Learned From Generating 31 Million Blog Hits

This is a little different than the topics I usually write about, but I have had a lot of people tell me lately that they have been thinking of starting a blog and just needed to actually make the jump and do it. For that reason, I wanted to provide a little bit of insight…

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View James Michael Sama’s Shorty Award Campaign Video!

Hey all! As you have probably seen by now floating around on social media, I am honored to be nominated for a Shorty Award for the second year in a row! I feel that this is an important award for this blog to be recognized for, because the value of these messages and articles being…

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Please Help Nominate JamesMSama.com For A Shorty Award!

Hi everyone, I am not the type of person to write blog posts about myself or ask for favors – I would much rather provide you with valuable content and hope that I have been doing just that! Because of this, I am humbled to have been nominated for a Shorty Award in the Blogger category,…

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The Gentleman’s Four Step Guide To Personal Style

Having grown up just outside of the city of Boston, I have been able to humbly brag about the praises showered upon us by magazines such as GQ. Boston is frequently #1 on their lists, and who could ever be upset about that? Well…that depends on what the list is for. Boston is, repeatedly, GQ’s #1…

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The Truth: Do All Men Cheat?

The argument has been made that biologically, humans are not hardwired to be monogamous. We are simply evolved primates whose natural drive is to reproduce, and we all know it takes work to reproduce – the stork doesn’t just show up carrying a baby. This primal urge does overcome some people (this goes for men…

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7 Do’s And Don’ts Of The Confident Woman

There are many things which enhance the power of a woman. A sparking personality, quick wit, developed intellect, impeccable style… But above all, a woman’s confidence can be one of her most powerful assets. Her confidence shows through everything. It speaks louder than the shoes she wears, the places she travels, and sometimes even louder than…

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Why Liking Someone Is More Important Than Loving Them

All you need is love. Love is the answer. Love is all you need. Love makes the world go ’round. But does it, really? Love is an incredibly important part of any relationship, whether it be family, friends, or significant others. Love is seen as the cornerstone, the very binding fiber that brings and keeps…

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8 Things Gentlemen Do Differently

When writing about the topics of being what could be considered in modern society a “gentleman” or a “lady,” I am often surprised by the backlash. Whether it is being called a sexist for actually recognizing the biological and behavioral differences between men and women, or those who feel personally insulted that they may not…

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Everyone Is In Somebody Else’s Friend Zone

I find the concept of the “friend zone” interesting because it is a term that feels like it should have been left back in elementary school with “cooties,” but has somehow transcended into modern American culture. Some people consistently express dissatisfaction with the term and say it is ridiculous, which I suppose in some ways…

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One Simple Way To Be A Better Boyfriend

I had a conversation over dinner last night with someone about an interesting issue that I knew was floating around, but I wasn’t sure of just how many people fall victim to it. Now, it is an easier problem to solve for some rather than others, given that we are all naturally better at certain…

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