Archive for January 2015
Seven Ways To Build Lasting Love
I’ve been thinking about something lately. I have been thinking about the term “fall in love,” and wondering…does it really make sense? There are a lot of terms we say or words we use that, when really broken down, don’t actually fit with the purpose of saying them. So, love – real love – is…
Read More10 Promises You Need To Make To Your Future Spouse
Sadly, marriage has lost much of its meaning in today’s society. Growing up in a household where my parents have been together for nearly 40 years and my grandparents were for over 60 years, I was always under the impression that marriage meant forever. It is a pledge, a promise, a commitment to another human being to…
Read MoreView James Michael Sama’s Shorty Award Campaign Video!
Hey all! As you have probably seen by now floating around on social media, I am honored to be nominated for a Shorty Award for the second year in a row! I feel that this is an important award for this blog to be recognized for, because the value of these messages and articles being…
Read MoreLovers And Friends: 7 Reasons To Build A Friendship First
I think a big issue with relationships these days is that people (particularly men) separate the idea of a relationship from the idea of a friendship. That being said – I have my own thoughts and opinions on the concept of men and women being able to be ‘just friends’ with each other with no…
Read More11 Reasons Good Men Won’t Cheat
Cheating in a relationship is, of course, not monopolized by either gender. Men cheat, women cheat, and according to studies, they have different reasons for doing so. I don’t think we can necessarily just say “men cheat for this reason, and women cheat for this reason,” though. Each individual person and scenario brings about a…
Read More11 Things He Secretly Loves About You
In previous articles we have discussed things that men secretly love, as well as things women secretly love. Some, admittedly…not so secret. But, many of these points were a bit more general and I think it is a worthy conversation to get into some more specific things that men love about the woman in their…
Read MoreHow To Survive Meeting Her Family
Congratulations are in order! You are dating someone new and it has gotten to the point where you have been invited to a weekend getaway with her family! Or, perhaps dinner. Or maybe a holiday tradition. Regardless of the occasion, there are many important things to keep in mind when spending an extended amount of…
Read MoreHow One Boy Used A Simple Act Of Kindness To Change His Life
The common theme of this blog is being chivalrous and romantic. In general, just kind and respectful to others. But it is important that we do not limit our kindness just to people who we are trying to impress or get something from. Being a gentleman is not about getting something in return – I…
Read More10 Signs She’s A Lady And Not Just A Girl
If this is your first time being exposed to my writing, I feel the need to preface this article by saying that probably 80-90% of my blog posts are focused on men and how we, as a gender, can be/do/act better in life and in love. So, save the ‘sexist’ or ‘woman-bashing’ comments please –…
Read MorePlease Help Nominate JamesMSama.com For A Shorty Award!
Hi everyone, I am not the type of person to write blog posts about myself or ask for favors – I would much rather provide you with valuable content and hope that I have been doing just that! Because of this, I am humbled to have been nominated for a Shorty Award in the Blogger category,…
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