Posts Tagged ‘What Women Want’
We Are Equal, But Not The Same
In my recent support of the new #HeForShe gender equality campaign, I find myself re-fighting a battle I have been working for over a year to win – the discussion of whether or not chivalry and equality can co-exist. People urge me to choose a side. They tell me that if I am going to…
Read MoreBad Boys Or Nice Guys: What Women Really Want
I have an old friend that some of you may have heard of before. His name is Steve Santagati and he has had a brand for quite awhile called “Bad Boys Finish First.” Steve regularly appears on many television shows as a relationship expert and is also a New York Times Bestseller. Steve and I get…
Read More5 Truths Behind What Women Really Want
If you browse social media sites like Facebook and eavesdrop on the comment section of pages that post articles related to dating and relationships, you will find an overwhelming amount of jaded men (and women) leaving comments about how all women typically want is, and I quote: “Money, orgasms and to laugh. But they will…
Read MoreEveryone Is In Somebody Else’s Friend Zone
I find the concept of the “friend zone” interesting because it is a term that feels like it should have been left back in elementary school with “cooties,” but has somehow transcended into modern American culture. Some people consistently express dissatisfaction with the term and say it is ridiculous, which I suppose in some ways…
Read MoreOne Simple Way To Be A Better Boyfriend
I had a conversation over dinner last night with someone about an interesting issue that I knew was floating around, but I wasn’t sure of just how many people fall victim to it. Now, it is an easier problem to solve for some rather than others, given that we are all naturally better at certain…
Read More8 Ways To Make Dating Better
It seems that more and more about our society is literally engineering the demise of dating for the sake of actually getting to know another person, and turning the whole idea into a game of how fast you can get them into bed…and then move on. Sure, many of us go through phases where we…
Read MoreWhy Selfish People Can Never Truly Love
There are many perceptions of what “true love” looks like in today’s society. People attempt to quantify it or put characteristics or actions or labels on it – but it is a difficult thing to define since every situation is unique. Though, once we filter through all of the pop culture interpretations and checklists of…
Read MoreThe Real Reason Smarter Women Stay Single Longer
I was recently sent an article titled “Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single.” Well, alrighty…but why? The article cites multiple sources such as this, this, and this, to justify its sweeping generalities of both men and women. For men, it is asserted in so many words that we…
Read More5 Steps To Becoming More Charismatic
When it comes to dating, one of the more desirable qualities a man can possess is what most of us would call charisma. But charisma is more of an umbrella term that encompasses a collection of different habits and qualities, rather than just being a self-standing one on its own. In our quest as men to develop into…
Read More10 Qualities Of A Desirable Man
In a society flooded with articles, social media updates, dating advice magazines, and hardly ever enough mental down-time to slow down and reset – we are left overloaded on information about “what to do,” but hardly enough insight on who to be. Especially as men, all of the “advice” out there is how to talk…
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