11 Things Men Want Women to Know

Women think men are complicated, and men think women are complicated. Could this be because we spend too much time trying to figure each other out and not enough time learning about each other? Too much time talking about each other and not enough time talking to each other? I think if men would sit down and have meaningful conversations…

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The 15 Real Signs of a Genuine Man

Genuine. A word seemingly reserved in today’s society for objects or artifacts. This is a ‘genuine’ piece. A ‘genuine’ collection. A ‘genuine’ whatever-the-hell. What you do not often hear, though, is how a person is genuine. I read (and listen to) stories on nearly a daily basis that describe the behavior of human beings in ways…

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The Single Best Thing a Man Can Do To Attract Mrs. Right

It is no secret that I have strong opinions when it comes to dating and relationships. Some are considered ‘old fashioned,’ and others couldn’t possibly be further from that definition. I have molded my views based on my values and also my experiences. I understand what relationships used to be like, and what they currently…

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Here’s Why Men Should Still Pay For Dates

“It’s 2016. Why are men still paying for women on dates?” Alfie Kohn asks in a recent Boston Globe Magazine article. He continues in his 2016 article: “Men paying for meals may have made more sense when fewer women worked outside the home — and those who did faced a bigger gender wage gap —…

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Why Selfish People Are Incapable Of Loving You

There are many perceptions of what “true love” looks like in today’s society. People attempt to quantify it or put characteristics or actions or labels on it – but it is a difficult thing to define since every situation is unique. Though, once we filter through all of the pop culture interpretations and checklists of…

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5 Signs She Doesn’t Want To Be Approached

I can’t tell you how many times I have seen or heard about women who are completely annoyed by men who have approached them in public when they were giving ‘clear signs’ that they wanted to be left alone. Let me start by saying that as a man, I understand the frustration of getting an…

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10 Things You Need To Be Okay With If You Want A Happy Relationship

All you need is love. Love is the answer. Love is all you need. Love makes the world go ’round. But does it, really? Love is an incredibly important part of any relationship, whether it be family, friends, or significant others. Love is seen as the cornerstone, the very binding fiber that brings and keeps…

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This Is Why Chivalry And Equality CAN Coexist

June 5th, 2015 was the 2 year anniversary of this blog’s inception. During its growth and development I have had much feedback on my articles, both good and bad. One of the most consistent comments however, is from men who tell me that if women want equality, they should therefore not expect men to be chivalrous. Can…

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10 Stereotypes To Stop Spreading About Women

There are many generalizations and stereotypes about women which I come across frequently. I find the higher the standards that a woman holds for herself and those she allows into her life, the less she fits the molds we are about to discuss. So, what are “all women” not…? _________________________________________________ Not all women are overly emotional. While it…

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9 Signs You’re Dating A Man, Not A Boy

In dating and relationships, there are stark differences between men who are emotionally mature, and those who…well, aren’t. For the sake of illustrating these differences in this article, we will refer to the emotionally immature as “boys,” and the emotionally mature as “men.” This is a list of nine great points from my good friend,…

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