Posts Tagged ‘nice guys’
11 Ways To Show Him Your Love
Great relationships aren’t about give and take, they’re about give and give. Of the hundreds of articles I’ve written, at least 75% are about how men can improve themselves and be better partners for the women in our lives. Here’s what we almost never talk about, though: Men need affection, too. Psychology Today once made…
Read More5 Clear Differences Between A Good Man And ‘The Nice Guy’
Often times when I write on chivalry and romance, the article’s comment section ends up discussing the appeal of “bad boys” and why women are typically attracted to them over the “nice guy.” Predictably, if we have to talk about why women like bad boys, we also need to talk about why they don’t like ‘nice guys.’ But…
Read More5 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone
When writing articles about chivalry, romance, and relationships – one tends to learn quite a bit about people from comments, emails, and messages. One of the things that I have learned is a prominent issue, is the male race’s avoidance of kindness for fear of being seen as “just a friend.” Particularly when I come…
Read MoreThe Real Reason Nice Guys Finish Last
Recently I was featured on a great podcast interview. One of the questions I was asked was in line with some responses I’ve gotten to my articles before: There are plenty of men out there who are not chivalrous and romantic but are still ‘successful’ on a certain level with women. So, why put in…
Read MoreWhen You Find This Type Of Woman, Never Let Her Go
For today’s generation of men, finding the type of woman we can picture ourselves in a long term relationship with, marrying, and building a family with, can be a long and tiring one. Sometimes, discouraging. But it is important for us to understand that good women, while hard to find, are out there. The same can be…
Read MoreThree Small Words That Will Improve Your Relationships
Many people read through my articles or see what I post on Facebook or Twitter and tell me that they wish their relationship could be “like that.” They tell me the expectations I set for individuals and couples are unrealistic. That nobody is really that happy. That romance and chivalry are just…dead. To all of you, absorb this:…
Read MorePerception Is Reality: How Men See Women Online
When it comes to writing articles online about dating and relationships, you often find the author (I do this as well) taking the position that seems to look from the inside out. Meaning, he or she writes from the perspective that the reader can relate to, and the subject of the article is often the…
Read More8 Things Happy Couples Don’t Do
Sometimes, building a solid healthy relationship isn’t just about what partners do, but what they don’t do. Here are 8 things that you won’t find in the habits of happy couples. Happy couples never discourage each other. Two people who love and care for each other would never attempt to discourage their partner or hold…
Read More7 Reasons Good Guys Finish First
To say “nice guys finish last” is to display a fundamental misunderstanding of what a “nice guy” is or what “finishing last” means. If you mean that a good guy finishes last because he always puts his woman first, then you are correct. But the reality is, it’s not the nice guy who finishes last,…
Read MoreHere’s Everything You Need To Know Before Approaching A Woman
As men in the 21st century, the vast amount of ‘advice’ permeating the interwebs regarding the subject of meeting women is often littered with Pickup-Artistry and similar methods that claim if you just pay the few thousand dollars to spend the weekend with the masters, you will be able to walk into any bar, and…
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