This Is Why Your Wife Won’t Have Sex With You

You know, it’s funny. Each day when I look at my website analytics I get an overview of some of the search terms that have brought organic traffic to my site through Google or other search engines. Often times there are phrases about what makes a good man, a good woman, making your partner feel…

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The Most Important Step To Finding The Right Person

Sure, it’s true that not everybody wants to be in a relationship. Some people are perfectly content being single, and it is more than possible to live a fully satisfying life by staying that way. But the fact of the matter is I still believe the majority of people would at least welcome the idea…

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10 Clear Signs Of A Great Relationship

Perfection, as we know, is not attainable. One of the reasons why it’s not attainable is that it has a different meaning for everyone. What one person defines as “perfection” could be completely different from another. Furthermore, perfection doesn’t allow room for real life. It doesn’t allow room for personality, for nuances, for the very…

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The Only Dating Rule You’ll Ever Need

How many dating advice articles do you think are floating around online? Hundreds of thousands? Millions? More? I can tell you that this is the 477th article on this website (of almost 800), most of which are on the topic(s) of dating and relationships. When you come across articles on this topic, you often find…

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7 Reasons To Choose The Gentleman Over The Bad Boy

Women are notorious for liking “bad boy” types and often times, snubbing the good guy. While the difference between a good guy and one who is so nice he could be considered a doormat, is an important one to define – the man who prides himself on his character and integrity should be acknowledged as…

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You Don’t Need Perfection To Find Magic

I received a message once from a reader that I thought raised an interesting topic of discussion. The message read as follows: Hello James! So… I have to propose a question to you that a friend recently asked me. First you should know that I am an avid daily reader of your blog and I…

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7 Things That Make A Woman Sexy

The word “sexy” in modern day society has often become synonymous with the matched drum-beats and stiletto steps made famous by Victoria’s Secret advertisements. While that is sexy, it is a very ‘high level’ approach to what the word really means. Meaning, we see it from afar, but don’t get into the details of it. Many of…

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The Secret To Understanding Women

The female mind is one of the most intriguing enigmas known to man. It can be fascinating, or frustrating, both for men and women. Men want to understand women, naturally, to be “better” with them, and build stronger relationships; both intimately and in other aspects of life. And women want to understand themselves (don’t we…

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8 Standards Of Conduct For The Modern Gentleman

When writing about the topics of being what could be considered in modern society a “gentleman” or a “lady,” I am often surprised by the backlash. Whether it is being called a sexist for actually recognizing the biological and behavioral differences between men and women, or those who feel personally insulted that they may not…

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Please Vote For JamesMSama.com As Best Dating Blog 2014!

Hello all! I don’t usually ask for favors but I would love to have another award for this blog on the books, and I can only do it with your help! I had no idea voting started for these awards but I am nominated and far behind because of it! Please please find JamesMSama.com on this…

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