The real reason most people are unhappy in their lives

I have always been fascinated by psychology. For the past decade I have taken classes on the subject, had thousands of conversations with people (literally) about their relationships and what makes them tick, read as many books as I could find, and even wrote a book on finding love within yourself. In more recent years…

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10 Lessons Every Man Needs to Learn to Attract Mrs. Right

There is a lot of confusion in the dating world these days surrounding what women want, how men are ‘supposed’ to act, or even what kind(s) of men actually attract women. In the long run, though, it is always a man who is confident and secure in HIMSELF that wins the day, regardless of his…

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The real reason ‘pickup artists’ ultimately failed, and what men should do instead

I still talk to people these days who were never aware of the huge pickup artist movement that existed about 10 years ago. Allow me to give you a very brief history: A few guys out of Los Angeles developed a system designed to help men (any kind of many from any walk of life)…

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Before you approach a woman, ask yourself these 5 questions

Part of the confusion that’s been spread throughout dating (and all social interactions) these days is not knowing what the proper etiquette is for approaching someone, saying hello, or trading a smile. When we think about it, these are some of the most basic of human interactions. Our minds automatically scan a room for faces…

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7 keys of confidence that will get you through any door

Just weeks after moving to Hollywood, California, I had people who’d been living there for years consistently reaching out to me to find out what the hottest event was that night, and asking how I’d seen more in a few weeks than they’d seen in a few years. The answer was pretty simple: I just…

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These 7 Questions Will Determine if You’re Sabotaging Your Own Relationships

I’ve learned over the years that most of the advice people seek out when it comes to personal development, dating, or relationships – is simply a reinforcement of what they already think. I find that when people come to me for coaching services, it’s because they want the honest truth and unbiased feedback. But, the…

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Here’s Why Ignoring Our Biology is Hurting Our Relationships

Buckle up, ladies and gents. This could get bumpy. Here’s a disclaimer for those of you who are finding my writing for the first time: For just over 5 years, I have been a public voice across the U.S. encouraging men to do better when it comes to dating and relationships. I write and speak…

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7 brutal truths about why you’re not attracting good men

There are multiple forms of this quote attributed to multiple sources, but the most poignant one goes like this: “The truth will set you free, but first, it will piss you off.” When you look for dating advice online, you have two choices: Find advice that makes you comfortable. Find advice that gives you the…

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11 Things She Wants You to do in a Relationship

It is often discussed how difficult it is to understand women. While many times this may seem to be the case, I don’t think it necessarily has to be. I think we all are hard to understand sometimes – we even have a hard time understanding ourselves. I know I do. Particularly in today’s society, men are confused.…

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5 Types of Men You Should Never Date (And One You Definitely Should)

Dating is a trial and error process. A “numbers game” so to speak. One of the only ways to determine what type of person you really want to be with, is to be with people who aren’t completely right for you. But, there are ways to avoid unnecessary heartache and skip over the wrong types…

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