20 Things You Deserve in Your Love Life

It’s hard to define what you deserve in life and in love. It requires a strong sense of self-worth, high standards, and solid boundaries. Those might be difficult for you to get clear on if you’ve not really dug into your wants, needs, desires, and identity. What is it that you really deserve from a…

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Modern Chivalry: Dating Rules of High-Status Men

Times change, and along with them: Social norms change. Technology changes. Acceptable behavior changes (sometimes for better, sometimes for worse), and basically, well, everything changes. We’ve rightfully left behind a lot from our past as our society has evolved and become more conscious about our actions…but the past wasn’t all bad. There are still lessons…

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30 Simple Ways to Become an Amazing Romantic Partner

What does it mean to be a “good partner”? Whether you are a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, spouse, significant other, or [enter term of choice here], most of the same principles apply. It comes down to the simple things. The ways that we listen, pay attention to detail, remember important things, and make the…

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15 Duties of All Good Men in Relationships

If there’s one thing that guys usually hate, it’s being told what to do. Many will resist and rebel just for the sake of pushing back against authority, even if that “authority” is their own personal decisions. What I mean by this : Sometimes, you make a choice that comes along with a set of guidelines,…

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You Need More Than Love: 12 Signs of Real Compatibility

What is it that makes two good people good for each other? The idea of compatibility is, for some strange reason, often overlooked when it comes to choosing a romantic partner. I believe we easily get caught up in the excitement of adventure, or the emotional rush of being with a new person, or the…

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5 Years In The Making: My First Book Is LIVE

The new book from America’s Leading Relationship Blogger, James Michael Sama, will revolutionize dating and relationships.

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Real Love Is A Choice

This article is written by Seth Adam Smith. _____________________________________________ My wife and I have known each other since high school, but didn’t date until much later. We had only dated a couple of weeks before we realized that we were madly in love and wanted to get married. I was all for it! I even…

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12 Traits He Wants In His Future Wife

I’m not really sure why, but I get a lot more nervous before I write an article about traits in women, than I do when I write one about traits in men. Maybe it’s because I have sort of a shield when I write about men, because, you know…I am one. But when I write…

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10 Promises You Need To Make To Your Future Spouse

Sadly, marriage has lost much of its meaning in today’s society. Growing up in a household where my parents have been together for nearly 40 years and my grandparents were for over 60 years, I was always under the impression that marriage meant forever. It is a pledge, a promise, a commitment to another human being to…

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The Evolution Of Monogamy

I think it’s safe to say that we are all aware that we live in a society with an astronomically high divorce rate (something above 60%?), TMZ telling us which celebrity had an affair this week, social media newsfeed stories about couples breaking up, getting back together, fighting, breaking up again, and it goes on. Yet…when…

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