Here Is Why Paying For The Date Is Not About The Money

So, you’ve spotted this woman at your local Starbucks, or grocery store, or tagged in a friend’s Facebook photo. You’ve started up a conversation, and she has agreed to spend some time with you. Let’s keep it simple and say you go to dinner. Fantastic! You pick her up, open the door, and are a…

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8 Reasons You Can’t Find Mr. Right

One of the things I love about connecting with this website’s readers on social media is that it gives us multiple different platforms to use for great discussions. One of which quite a few of us had last night on my personal Facebook page. Here is how the conversation started: I talk to multiple people…

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Men: Stop Asking Women This Question

Yesterday, I received a message on Facebook from a female reader who had a question for me. She asked me why the vast majority of men she goes on dates with seem to ask her the same question: How many people have you been with? This is surprising to me because I have personally never asked…

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The Truth: Do All Men Cheat?

The argument has been made that biologically, humans are not hardwired to be monogamous. We are simply evolved primates whose natural drive is to reproduce, and we all know it takes work to reproduce – the stork doesn’t just show up carrying a baby. This primal urge does overcome some people (this goes for men…

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7 Reasons Good Guys Win In The End

To say “nice guys finish last” is to display a fundamental misunderstanding of what a “nice guy” is or what “finishing last” means. If you mean that a good guy finishes last because he always puts his woman first, then you are correct. But the reality is, it’s not the nice guy who finishes last,…

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5 Easy Ways To Be Better With Women

Regardless of how confident a man is or how successful he is in every other area of his life, it is entirely possible that he is reduced to a quivering pre-pubescent boy when it comes to one scenario: Women. I don’t think we ever really lose the sweaty-palms feeling before approaching or having a great conversation with…

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Marriage Shouldn’t Be Your Goal, Happiness Should

It is no surprise to anyone who has read my articles before that I tend to be a bit old fashioned in some of my values – but it’s also important to note that I am very much not in many others. One of which has come into conversation many times with my grandparents. “So, when are…

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Why You Need To Stop Trying To Change People

For those of you who don’t know the story of the scorpion and the frog – allow me to enlighten you. A scorpion needed to cross a river, so he approached a frog to ask for help. The frog denied him, saying “Why should I trust you? You could easily sting me.” The scorpion assured…

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7 Do’s And Don’ts Of The Confident Woman

There are many things which enhance the power of a woman. A sparking personality, quick wit, developed intellect, impeccable style… But above all, a woman’s confidence can be one of her most powerful assets. Her confidence shows through everything. It speaks louder than the shoes she wears, the places she travels, and sometimes even louder than…

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8 Do’s And Don’ts Of The Confident Man

There are some things that never go out of style – fast cars, good food, a good scotch, and…a man’s confidence. Your confidence shows through everything. It speaks louder than the car you drive, the condo you live in, or the way you dress. Your confidence can open doors for you in life, and lack…

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