5 Ways to Become Bulletproof to Heartbreak

One of the (if not THE) most prominent reasons I hear from people about why they’ve stopped dating, or approach it with brutal skepticism, is that they have been hurt so much in the past that they simply do not trust people anymore – or trust that finding happiness is even a possibility. The problem…

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Harvey Weinstein Should Be a Wake-Up Call to Men Everywhere

  Harvey Weinstein, the Hollywood mogul who has recently been outed as a chronic sexual predator and all-around dirtbag, is, unfortunately, not at all a surprise. That is, if you’ve been paying attention. Unfortunately, he is not just a Hollywood problem. He is not a 2017 problem. He is the new face of a rampant…

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5 Years In The Making: My First Book Is LIVE

The new book from America’s Leading Relationship Blogger, James Michael Sama, will revolutionize dating and relationships.

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If She Doesn’t Respect You, She’ll Never Date You

There are an endless amount of factors that dictate whether or not two people want to date each other, and as someone who writes and speaks on relationships from a male perspective, I have a variety of conversations on a daily basis that enlighten me further on what makes a man desirable. Sure, attraction is…

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This Is How The Right Person Should Make You Feel About Yourself

How you feel about your teammate is not the only thing that matters. It is almost even more important, how you feel about yourself when you’re with them.

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5 Ways to Finally Attract The Love You Deserve

“We only accept the love we think we deserve.” – Perks of Being a Wallflower

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5 Reasons You Need to Stop Fighting For Attention from Men (or Women)

You need to stop sacrificing your own self-worth for the sake of being in a relationship.

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If You Want a Man to Put in More Effort, Give Him a Purpose

This may be a bit of a ‘What came first, the chicken, or the egg?” scenario, but hear me out. There seems to be a direct correlation between men putting less effort into a relationship, and men having fewer responsibilities in said relationship. **EDIT** Judging by some comments received, I need to clarify further: I…

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Stop Worrying, Guys. Turns Out Women ARE Open to Being Approached

Men don’t think women are open to being approached anymore, so I asked over 100,000 women for the truth.

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You’ll Never Be Happy With Someone Until You’re Happy Alone

The internet (and this website)…is home to countless articles, videos, and quotes about being in a happy relationship. Not settling for less than you deserve. Texts to send a guy to make him fall in love with you. Questions to ask women that’ll get them talking to you. Blah, blah, blah. Like much of our…

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