Posts Tagged ‘cheating’
Cheating Isn’t The Problem, Cheating Is The Result of The Problem
I have long since held the position that someone who truly loves and cares for you, will never cheat on you. My personal belief is that cheating should be the end of a relationship – I know there are other writers and speakers out there who may advocate for giving a second chance for whatever…
Read MoreThe #1 Cause of Cheating in Relationships
Cheating. Infidelity. Disloyalty. Untrustworthiness (is that a word?) Whatever you want to call it, cheating in relationships seems to almost be par for the course these days. We often talk about how difficult it is to find happy, healthy, solid relationships in our society – and there are many different sets of circumstances that get…
Read MoreWhy Ashley Madison Is A Symptom, Not The Problem
While 60% of married men and 55% of married women have admitted to being unfaithful (According to studies published in The Journal of Couple & Relationship Therapy), the Ashley Madison hack revealed 27 million male-identified profiles and 4.4 million female identified profiles. For those just joining the discussion, AshleyMadison.com is a website specifically designed for…
Read More5 Ways You Cheat Without Even Realizing It
I once received this email from a reader: I love your insight and columns and use them as a guide for what I want in a man and to keep me focused on what is right and acceptable for me in a relationship. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me spread the word that sending “suggestive” emails…
Read More8 Lame Excuses Used To Justify Cheating In A Relationship
A friend of mine recently tagged me in a comment on Facebook under an article that was discussing a new dating site that caters to ‘swingers, polyamorous couples, and ethical cheaters.’ Ethical cheaters? The first thought I had, which I’m sure many of you share, is that there is no such thing as an ethical cheater. The two…
Read More11 Reasons Good Men Won’t Cheat
Cheating in a relationship is, of course, not monopolized by either gender. Men cheat, women cheat, and according to studies, they have different reasons for doing so. I don’t think we can necessarily just say “men cheat for this reason, and women cheat for this reason,” though. Each individual person and scenario brings about a…
Read MoreThe Truth: Do All Men Cheat?
The argument has been made that biologically, humans are not hardwired to be monogamous. We are simply evolved primates whose natural drive is to reproduce, and we all know it takes work to reproduce – the stork doesn’t just show up carrying a baby. This primal urge does overcome some people (this goes for men…
Read More5 Ways You Cheat Without Even Knowing
I once received this email from a reader: I love your insight and columns and use them as a guide for what I want in a man and to keep me focused on what is right and acceptable for me in a relationship. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me spread the word that sending “suggestive” emails…
Read More5 Things Cheating Men Should Know About Women
Before the flurry of comments begins about how women cheat too, and how I’m just a man-basher…let me just say that I am also a man, and I understand that women cheat too. That’s a different article for a different time, this one, is about men. This is about men who think cheating is excusable.…
Read More6 Ways To Know You’re A Good Boyfriend
Gentlemen, We are living in a whole new world. A world different than our fathers and grandfathers. A world that, if you are looking for a short term woman, rewards good looks, flashy cars, and nice watches. But, we are also living in a world of new women. Independent, mature, intelligent, self sufficient women. Women…
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