Archive for June 2014
10 Ingredients In The Great Relationship Recipe
I am limited in my ability to cook, but one recipe that I like to think I understand pretty well is one that turns out a happy, healthy relationship. There are a few key ingredients that go into this tasty meal. Fire up that oven and let’s get started. _____________________________________ Attraction. We can say that looks…
Read More10 Signs He’s Secretly A Jerk
Not all men who are players are just players. Some work harder to put on more of an act in order to get, and keep your attention – but they’re not really who they say they are. A guy who is ‘sending in his representative’ puts on a facade for even longer than it takes for…
Read More10 Signs He Might Be The One
It’s hard enough in today’s dating world to find someone that you even want to see more than a few times…so it seems nearly impossible to be able to determine if someone could actually be “the one” for you, right? It may not be as difficult as you think. Happy relationships aren’t just about the…
Read More10 Tips For Attracting Better Men
If this is your first introduction to my writing, I unfortunately feel that I need to give a disclaimer: The majority of my articles, since I am a man, are focused around suggestions on how men can become better and live better lives. So please do not get the impression from this article that I intend…
Read MoreIs This Why Women Fall For Jerks?
It’s no secret that women have historically preferred the dominant male to the “nice guy.” There are books written about it, movies made about it, and just about everyone is aware of this phenomenon. Then, why are there so few happy relationships if women are really finding what they want? Why do they continue falling for…
Read More5 Tips For Attracting The Right Woman
As we find ourselves in the ‘hookup generation,’ it may seem as though hope for happiness or healthy relationships is lost. It may seem as though the women of today are only to be found huddled around VIP tables at nightclubs with men who have as much depth as a puddle after a rainstorm. I’m glad to…
Read More15 Seconds Of Chivalry [Video #2]
The second installment of 15 Seconds Of Chivalry, featuring an easy surprise to make coming home from a long day more enjoyable – no holiday or special occasion required. Click here to connect with me on Twitter -> [twitter-follow screen_name=’JamesMSama’] Click here to join the discussion on Facebook. Click here for the New Chivalry Movement.
Read More5 Non-Negotiable Dating Rules
Not a day goes by when I don’t get emails or messages full of dating “mishaps,” to put it lightly. These real-world examples have inspired me to try to guide the flow of the dating river. I am not usually the type to invoke “rules,” or even use the term, but I’m pretty sure we…
Read More5 Ways You Cheat Without Even Knowing
I once received this email from a reader: I love your insight and columns and use them as a guide for what I want in a man and to keep me focused on what is right and acceptable for me in a relationship. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me spread the word that sending “suggestive” emails…
Read More10 Ways To Resurrect Romance
It seems as though many romantic ideals of the past have become just that…ideals. Small actions and habits that have actually become so small, they’re nearly invisible. To be romantic or chivalrous really is not that difficult, it just takes a little more effort and the willingness to break patterns. Don’t fall into a routine…
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