While men often wish that women would come out and just say what they’re thinking. Wouldn’t it make the dating game much easier? If she’s not into you, you know to just move on.
Ah, but, what fun would that be? And, how else would you use your competitive advantage that you know how to read a woman’s body language to gauge her interest?
Don’t know how? Read on.
Does she sound like she just inhaled a helium balloon?
A paper from the Journal Of Evolutionary Psychology found evidence that when a woman is speaking to a man she is interested in, the pitch of her voice actually raises up. The phrase “It’s not what you say, but how you say it” comes to mind here. Pay close attention to whether or not she sounds any different when she’s talking to you.
Cornell University found that when a woman is viewing materials that get her, well, excited…her pupils get larger (This goes for men also). So, when you’re gazing into her beautiful eyes across the table, make sure you know exactly what you’re looking at.
Speaking of her eyes…
While you’re already looking in that direction, look around her eyes as well as into them. Tyra Banks coined the term “smize” which is when a woman smiles with her eyes. Can’t tell if she is just pretending to laugh at your jokes or is genuinely having a good time? If there are no wrinkles around the corners of her eyes, she is probably just plastering on that smile from the nose down to make you feel better.
While you’re complimenting her shoes…
Since I’m sure you already know by now to pay attention to small details and compliment her on them, such as when her clutch matches it shoes (hint: It does), there’s something else you should also notice.
Which direction are her feet pointing in? Forget about who she is talking to or where her head is turned, if her feet are pointed towards you, that’s where her attention really is. Away from you, and you need to step your game up.
Check out her chest.
Slow down, Casanova, this isn’t what you think.
When a woman is sexually excited, it is likely (though not always the case) that her chest/neck/even her arms will be flush or a pink color. You might not notice this until later in the night, as long as you’ve played your cards right from the points above. You know that song “my mind is telling me no, but my bodyyyy…my body is tellin’ me yessss…”
That’s what she’s thinking.
How’s my hair?
When I was in high school, before I was any good with women, a friend of mine told me that there are only two reasons a woman will touch your face. Either you’ve got something stuck on it, or she wants to kiss you.
Turns out, he was basically right. An addition to this valuable piece of information is how she pays attention to her own face and hair as well. If you catch her playing with her hair, or seemingly making sure that everything is in place – it’s likely she’s trying to make sure she’s making a good impression with you.
Of course, you don’t want to jump the gun and pounce on any woman who has her feet pointed towards you, but if you pay close attention to her while being romantic and chivalrous, the tides will begin to turn in your favor.
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