Your 10-Point Guide for Attracting Real Love

If “Finding love” is on your “to-do” list for 2026, then it’s time to take a real look at the ways you can be more efficient with your time and energy…and stop giving it to the wrong people. 1: Get REALLY CLEAR on your wants vs. your needs. These are two different things. What is it…

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20 Things You Deserve in Your Love Life

It’s hard to define what you deserve in life and in love. It requires a strong sense of self-worth, high standards, and solid boundaries. Those might be difficult for you to get clear on if you’ve not really dug into your wants, needs, desires, and identity. What is it that you really deserve from a…

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20 Vital Lessons About How Women Think

Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. While, of course, the world’s 8 billion people each hold an individual set of traits and personalities, that doesn’t mean we can’t find some common truths that apply on…

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Modern Chivalry: Dating Rules of High-Status Men

Times change, and along with them: Social norms change. Technology changes. Acceptable behavior changes (sometimes for better, sometimes for worse), and basically, well, everything changes. We’ve rightfully left behind a lot from our past as our society has evolved and become more conscious about our actions…but the past wasn’t all bad. There are still lessons…

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30 Simple Ways to Become an Amazing Romantic Partner

What does it mean to be a “good partner”? Whether you are a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, spouse, significant other, or [enter term of choice here], most of the same principles apply. It comes down to the simple things. The ways that we listen, pay attention to detail, remember important things, and make the…

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Your Relationship Should Meet These 15 Needs

There is a big difference between “wants” and “needs” that often go overlooked when determining what is best for us in a relationship. A ‘want’ is something that, well…we want. There is, however, a deeper and more fundamental need that we are seeking to have filled by that “want.” In other words: The want is…

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15 Timeless Dating Manners Women Wish You Knew

Photo: Us on our first wedding anniversary! Building a relationship with someone is a tricky thing. It takes proactive and deliberate action — yet it’s not something that comes with a formula or blueprint. There are no guarantees, yet there are strategies you can put in place that work in your favor. For men, we are traditionally…

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Couples Who Stay Together Forever Do These 10 Things

Photo: Mrs. Rachel Sama and Mr. James Michael Sama If I asked you to think about the happiest couples you know, who pops into your mind first? For me, it’s quite obviously my parents who’ve been happily together for over 40 years, and also my late grandparents who were together for over 60 years. I…

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Every Relationship Needs These 5 Types Of Intimacy

Happy and healthy relationships are multi-faceted. They require two people to intertwine their lives, their hearts, their minds, and souls in order to live a harmonious and thriving life together. Such a complex endeavor must be intentional and requires full dedication from both partners. Dedication that brings us to the table every single day with…

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11 Things Women Want To Hear

(Hint: NOT how “hot” she is). What makes for a meaningful compliment? Most men, when complimenting women, resort to remarks about appearance or a victory in the genetic lottery based simply on luck. Women, particularly on social media, hear how beautiful they are all the time. Random men leave compliments on photos, send messages on…

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