32 Behaviors I Notice in High-Status Men

You feel stuck, don’t you? You know that you’re capable of achieving…nay, being so much more than you already are, but you’re just not sure where (or how) to start. You have great ideas, but you can’t get people to listen. You have mountains of love to give, but you can’t seem to attract women.…

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Modern Chivalry: Dating Rules of High-Status Men

Times change, and along with them: Social norms change. Technology changes. Acceptable behavior changes (sometimes for better, sometimes for worse), and basically, well, everything changes. We’ve rightfully left behind a lot from our past as our society has evolved and become more conscious about our actions…but the past wasn’t all bad. There are still lessons…

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11 Ways To Show Him Your Love

Great relationships aren’t about give and take, they’re about give and give. Of the hundreds of articles I’ve written, at least 75% are about how men can improve themselves and be better partners for the women in our lives. Here’s what we almost never talk about, though: Men need affection, too. Psychology Today once made…

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The real reason ‘pickup artists’ ultimately failed, and what men should do instead

I still talk to people these days who were never aware of the huge pickup artist movement that existed about 10 years ago. Allow me to give you a very brief history: A few guys out of Los Angeles developed a system designed to help men (any kind of many from any walk of life)…

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How to date like a man who has his sh*t together

In a world where chivalry and courtship seem to be the stuff of history books, where “Hey, wanna hang out?” via text message is accepted as a date invitation, and men complain that they shouldn’t have to pay for dinner if women want equality – it is plain to see that we need to bring some…

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Here’s Why Ignoring Our Biology is Hurting Our Relationships

Buckle up, ladies and gents. This could get bumpy. Here’s a disclaimer for those of you who are finding my writing for the first time: For just over 5 years, I have been a public voice across the U.S. encouraging men to do better when it comes to dating and relationships. I write and speak…

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How To Date Any Woman You Want, Get 6-Pack Abs, and Triple Your Salary

In just 8 easy steps.

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5 Life Skills Modern Men Need to Bring Back

What happened to the concept of ‘being a man’? I think we tiptoe around the room of political correctness so much these days that we are afraid to say that anyone ‘should’ be or do anything specific, because it may make someone else feel left out. My personal belief is that we can all live…

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10 Meaningful Traits that Make a Real Man

What does it mean to be a “real man”? And how has the definition changed over time?

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10 Rules For Any Gentleman Dating a Strong Woman

As societal norms change around us on a daily basis, so do the ways in which we interact with each other as human beings. This goes for any type of ‘relationship,’ whether it be platonic, professional, friends, or intimate relationships. More specifically, though, men are becoming increasingly confused as to what’s expected from them in…

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