Posts Tagged ‘what does a man want’
Great Expectations: The Importance Of Honesty In Dating
Dating these days is a challenge. Anyone who is single can relate to that. We are filtering through an entire world full of potential partners and gradually narrowing it down as we go. Who lives close enough to us, who are we attracted to, who shares interests with us, who do we feel the chemistry…
Read MoreOne Simple Way To Know He’s Serious About You
I received a message from someone the other day that made me realize the importance of covering this topic. The message was as follows: “Do you notice so many people just settling with cyber dating? Like they become so busy they just settle for video and texting all day and then never seeing each other?…
Read MoreNo Excuses: 10 Things Good Men Will Never Do
I find lately that any time I write an article outlining certain traits of men or how we “should” or “shouldn’t” act in a relationship (I have to be careful with those words because people often accuse me of telling everyone how to act…) that I get plenty of backlash from those who disagree with what…
Read MoreBringing Back Honor: Why Men Of The World Need To Do Better
My fellow gentlemen, I’m sure I am not alone in noticing what seems to be a bit of an unnerving trend that is unfolding around us. It feels as though we are being complained about more than we are being praised. We are being avoided more than we are being desired. We are being ignored…
Read MoreKeep Your Head Up: Being Unappreciated Doesn’t Mean You’re Broken
This is an increasingly serious issue that I believe needs to be addressed. I would say it is particularly prominent in younger generations but I think it is unfortunately quite widespread. The problem is this: Intelligent, caring, loving people who become jaded from dating those who don’t appreciate them, and then emotionally close themselves off to…
Read MoreTunnel Vision: 8 Signs He Only Wants One Thing
I have been hearing a certain concern from women more often recently. It seems to permeate every age group and has become pretty widespread. The concern is from women who are talked to by men who seem genuine and interested in a real, honest, long term relationship…but never seem to get any more serious than…
Read MoreHere’s How The Hookup Culture Is Ruining Dating
Up until now, I have been sort of ambivalent towards the whole concept of the ‘hookup culture’ as we call it. Men and women (boys and girls?) who essentially only have interest in one night stands and rarely speak to the person they end up with after the deed is done. This is essentially mutually…
Read MoreStep Your Game Up: Hanging Out Is Not Dating
Here we are, in the 21st century. Gen-X’ers, Gen Y-ers, Gen-Whatever’ers who are having a hard enough time navigating massive student loan debts, high rents, and a difficult job market. To add the icing on the cake, they are floundering through the dating world slash hookup culture and quickly discovering that nobody knows what the…
Read MoreA Letter To Those We Once Loved
Dear, one we once loved, There was a time, wasn’t there? There was a time that we shared ourselves with each other. We shared laughter, tears, experiences, traditions. We shared our most intimate secrets with each other. We shared a bed – but even more importantly we shared wants, needs, desires, dreams, and visions for…
Read MoreMen Can Handle Your Attitude, They Just Don’t Want To
This is something that has been irking me for awhile now. The ever-increasing demeanor of the modern girl/woman who proudly proclaims that she has an attitude that men just ‘can’t handle’ and she won’t settle for someone weak like that. Cringe-worthy. The first reason why I have a problem with the terminology ‘can’t handle’ is…
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