15 Acts Of Chivalry For The 21st Century

Times change, and along with them – social norms change. Technology changes. Acceptable behavior changes (sometimes for better, sometimes for worse), and basically, well, everything changes. For this reason, we cannot always simply ‘bring back’ certain concepts that were once widely accepted or appreciated, and for good reason. But what we can do is glance…

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10 Tips For Strengthening A New Relationship

It seems that lately, the only thing more difficult than finding someone we want to enter into a relationship with, is figuring out exactly how to make that relationship last when we finally do. It’s important to remember that the effort it took to get someone’s attention will also be the effort it takes to…

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If You Feel Offended, Maybe You Should Be

There are many pros and cons to running a blog like this. Thankfully, there are mostly pros, but every now and then we are reminded that any time general criticism is focused in a specific direction, some people are going to be offended. Many of my articles criticize men, because I am a man. I…

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How To: Compliment Women Without Being A Creep

Well, you guys, we have really done it now. We as men have successfully destroyed the concept of actually approaching women and paying them a genuine compliment. Guys yell out of car windows, cat-call women on the street (and insult them when they don’t answer), and leave ridiculous comments on Facebook photos. Unfortunately, the words “hot,”…

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Drawing The Line: When Is Harassment Actually Harassment?

I’m sure many of you have seen this interesting video, as it has generated over five million YouTube views in a single day and is climbing fast. Before I get into the topic at hand, I have made it very clear in past aticles that I am against street harassment and men really need to pull…

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It Goes Both Ways: 10 Ways She Can Be Romantic Too

As a man writing from a male perspective, my focus is primarily to challenge both myself and my fellow men to put in more effort and do better when it comes to dating, relationships, and life in general. That is after all, the primary theme of this website. One thing I typically notice though, is…

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Why You Should Make More People Take The Stairs

It is no secret that people are frustrated with the state of the dating world these days. With statistics showing over half of American adults being single, clearly something has to change (at least, if a relationship is what you want). Here is one of the big problems I think is perpetuating this widespread dissatisfaction: Not enough…

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Why You Should Stop Trying To Get Women To Date You

That’s right, I said it. Guys, you need to stop trying to get women to date you. You need to stop trying to figure out what to say or what to do or what magic potion or pickup line or routine is going to magically ‘get her’ to go out with you. Many times when…

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When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them

The title of this article is a quote by Maya Angelou. A quote that most of us probably think back on situations in our past and say “I should have listened to Maya.” It is so difficult to find someone in today’s society that I think many of us get a little wide-eyed when somebody…

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One Simple Way To Become More Physically Attractive [Instantly]

It is no secret that we live in an image-centric society. We are constantly bombarded by images of beauty, whether it be a billboard, advertisement on the side of a bus, or an advertisement that pops up on the side of our favorite website. It takes little more than a glimpse at the cover of…

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