A Letter To Those We Once Loved

Dear, one we once loved, There was a time, wasn’t there? There was a time that we shared ourselves with each other. We shared laughter, tears, experiences, traditions. We shared our most intimate secrets with each other. We shared a bed – but even more importantly we shared wants, needs, desires, dreams, and visions for…

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Men Can Handle Your Attitude, They Just Don’t Want To

This is something that has been irking me for awhile now. The ever-increasing demeanor of the modern girl/woman who proudly proclaims that she has an attitude that men just ‘can’t handle’ and she won’t settle for someone weak like that. Cringe-worthy. The first reason why I have a problem with the terminology ‘can’t handle’ is…

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Here Is Why Attracting The Wrong Men Is Not A Problem

How many of you have said to someone else, or have had them say to you, “I only attract jerks!” or “Why are only the wrong men attracted to me?” I’ve certainly heard it more than once. And I understand that many women out there really believe this to be the issue. And sometimes, it is…

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Actions Speak Louder Than Words: 12 Ways Men Show Their Love

In some conversations that I have with women regarding a man they are just starting to date, or even one they have been with for awhile – I often hear how he is not as verbal as they would like when it comes to showing their affection. Many things I suggest in my article suggest open…

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10 Things Men Don’t Really Care About

Sometimes men get a bad rap for not noticing things, not paying attention to small details, and even just not listening in general. While I do often disagree with many of these generalizations, it is true that there are some things that we just don’t care about. But, they might not be the kinds of…

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Why You Need To Stop Forcing The Wrong Relationships

It has been said that relationships take work, and that is true. Anytime two people come together and mesh their lives into each other’s, there is going to be some effort required in order to feel out comfort levels, discuss similarities and differences, and find a balance. While I don’t like the term ‘work’ in…

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Why Having Low Expectations Is Killing Your Happiness

I don’t claim to be an expert on anything. I am not a ‘guru’ or a seer of any kind who can see the future, I am just a guy who likes to think he has a grasp on how human interactions work. That being said – I also like to think I can spot…

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Why You Need To Stop Accepting Conditional Love

I was talking to a friend of mine earlier about her current dating situation, the subject of challenges we all face in life, and how a significant other will handle them. She is in the very early stages of seeing someone, but those stages are still there to teach you about a person. A lot…

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35 Rules For The Modern Man

This is an excerpt from a list I came across quite awhile ago online, and was happy to have a friend remind me of it on Facebook earlier. I think it provides a good set of guidelines for the modern man in order to be our best selves, so I wanted to share it on here.…

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Not All Men Are Jerks And Not All Women Are Crazy

Ah, how easy it is for us to categorize people. It is, in some ways, an evolutionary trait that gives us the advantage of thinking more quickly. This means danger. That means safety. React quickly based on information presented at the surface, and keep yourself alive. But problems arise when we attempt to live our…

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