5 Big Warning Signs Of A Toxic Partner

These red flags help to answer the question: “Should I stay or should I go?” One of the biggest causes I see of toxic relationships spiraling over time, is ignoring or not recognizing red flags early on. Naturally, if we’re excited about seeing someone new, we can give them a little slack with weird behaviors…

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11 Ways To Show Him Your Love

Great relationships aren’t about give and take, they’re about give and give. Of the hundreds of articles I’ve written, at least 75% are about how men can improve themselves and be better partners for the women in our lives. Here’s what we almost never talk about, though: Men need affection, too. Psychology Today once made…

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The Right Relationship Will NEVER Make You Sacrifice Your Identity

I’m going to be as brutally clear as possible in this post. No fluff. No introduction. No sugar-coating. A relationship should be a consistent evaluation of the person you are committing to. You should 100% and absolutely be able to envision a future with them and COMMIT to building it. But, you should ALSO be…

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8 Clear Warning Signs Of A Toxic Relationship

This is a very difficult topic to discuss – because you’ve got to be sensitive to people’s feelings, but at the same time, give them a dose of reality. It’s both disappointing and unfortunate to see how many abusive relationships are happening on a daily basis, and thought to be normal. It’s important to note that…

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11 Warning Signs You’re Dating A Toxic Person

While it is of course important to set our standards and understand within ourselves what we want when in a potential teammate, it is equally as important to understand what we don’t want. Part of defining what we don’t want in a partner is knowing what kinds of people are going to make us happy and what…

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When You Find This Type Of Woman, Never Let Her Go

For today’s generation of men, finding the type of woman we can picture ourselves in a long term relationship with, marrying, and building a family with, can be a long and tiring one. Sometimes, discouraging. But it is important for us to understand that good women, while hard to find, are out there. The same can be…

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Three Small Words That Will Improve Your Relationships

Many people read through my articles or see what I post on Facebook or Twitter and tell me that they wish their relationship could be “like that.” They tell me the expectations I set for individuals and couples are unrealistic. That nobody is really that happy. That romance and chivalry are just…dead. To all of you, absorb this:…

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Perception Is Reality: How Men See Women Online

When it comes to writing articles online about dating and relationships, you often find the author (I do this as well) taking the position that seems to look from the inside out. Meaning, he or she writes from the perspective that the reader can relate to, and the subject of the article is often the…

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8 Things Happy Couples Don’t Do

Sometimes, building a solid healthy relationship isn’t just about what partners do, but what they don’t do. Here are 8 things that you won’t find in the habits of happy couples. Happy couples never discourage each other. Two people who love and care for each other would never attempt to discourage their partner or hold…

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7 Reasons Good Guys Finish First

To say “nice guys finish last” is to display a fundamental misunderstanding of what a “nice guy” is or what “finishing last” means. If you mean that a good guy finishes last because he always puts his woman first, then you are correct. But the reality is, it’s not the nice guy who finishes last,…

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