The Truth: Do All Men Cheat?

The argument has been made that biologically, humans are not hardwired to be monogamous. We are simply evolved primates whose natural drive is to reproduce, and we all know it takes work to reproduce – the stork doesn’t just show up carrying a baby. This primal urge does overcome some people (men AND women), but…

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Is He A Womanizer…Or A Gentleman?

I recently came across a blog post that actually aggravated me a little bit. The topic is “Womanizing Techniques” – which I read through and began to think to myself…”Wait a minute, I do these things!” And I am certainly not a womanizer. Generalizing is a very slippery slope and this blogger could easily scare a woman away…

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A Response To: ‘Confessions Of A Serial Cheater’

A friend linked me to this (borderline ridiculous) article, Confessions of a Serial Cheater, that I was compelled to respond to. Where do I begin? The anonymous (for good reason) storyteller begins by openly discussing his consistent cheating habit. The first (of 10? 15? Maybe 20?) time he cheated on his current fiancee started with…

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Why You Shouldn’t Give Up On Love

Love hurts. Love stinks. Love sucks. …No, it doesn’t. Being betrayed, cheated on, lied to, broken up with, thinking someone is different than they are – those things all suck. Love, does not. Our generation has a considerably difficult time finding love. Many times they find a hookup at a club that lasts for a few…

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Where have the gentlemen gone?

I am constantly baffled by women’s perception of the “men” of our generation. The generalization of “guys” these days almost makes me embarrassed to be one simply because I might get grouped together with them. On the flip side, women who are perpetually jaded and only talk badly about men are making themselves look worse…

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Don’t Just Go Through Relationships, Grow Through Relationships.

First, I just want to say I have a great girlfriend, this is not about me. But, as we all see on Facebook, breakups happen every day. Some people get back together, some don’t. Sometimes it’s a mutual feeling, sometimes it’s not. Sometimes you’re the one who wants it to end, sometimes you’re not. And sometimes,…

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The Difference Between A ‘Bad Boy’ And A Jerk

It’s no secret that women prefer the bad boy to the nice guy. There are books written about it, movies made about it, and just about every single heterosexual person in the history of humanity is aware of this phenomenon. However, there’s another piece to the puzzle. There’s a subtle differentiation between a bad boy, and some…

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The evolution of monogamy.

I think it’s safe to say that we all are familiar with the fact that there’s an astronomically high divorce rate, constant news stories about which celebrity had an affair with 4,490,986 people this week, couples breaking up, getting back together, fighting, breaking up again, etc… Yet…our grandparents and some of our parents have been…

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Why You Should Always Do Nice Things For Girls

I recently read an article on Elite Daily entitled “Why You Should Never Do Anything Nice For A Girl.” There seems to be an increasing trend in articles about how courtship is dead and monogamy is no more. So, I was compelled to change the tone.   Let me provide some cliff’s notes on the article…

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