Posts Tagged ‘Relationship’
Here’s why “just be yourself” is terrible advice
Listen, I know you’re a good person. I know that you have wants, needs, desires, fears, dreams, deep emotional experiences, and a variety of life experiences every day. I also know that your friends and family care a lot about you. They want the best for you and they want to see you happy. Here’s…
Read More5 things men are never taught about women (but should be)
Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you’ve probably seen the abhorrent out-in-the-open groping of Ariana Grande at Aretha Franklin’s funeral by this bishop: You can find the video if you’re so inclined, but to say it’s uncomfortable is an understatement. The entire time you’ll just sit there asking yourself: What in the blue hell…
Read MoreThe real reason most people are unhappy in their lives
I have always been fascinated by psychology. For the past decade I have taken classes on the subject, had thousands of conversations with people (literally) about their relationships and what makes them tick, read as many books as I could find, and even wrote a book on finding love within yourself. In more recent years…
Read More5 ways to be the person everyone wants to meet at any event
The phrase ‘it’s not what you know, it’s who you know’ has been around for decades, and in many ways still rings true today. This is especially true when seeking a job, opportunity, or even a romantic partner. But in the age of networking transforming into social networking and adding an online component, there is…
Read MoreThe ONE question you need to ask yourself after every date
Dating, among other things, has become exponentially complicated over the years. Understandably so, as life in general has gotten more complicated. Instead of love letters and trips to the diner for milkshakes as your primary mode of communication, we’ve got Instagram DMs, Facebook messenger, texts, tweets, WhatsApp, dating apps, and the like… Easier communication also…
Read More10 Lessons Every Man Needs to Learn to Attract Mrs. Right
There is a lot of confusion in the dating world these days surrounding what women want, how men are ‘supposed’ to act, or even what kind(s) of men actually attract women. In the long run, though, it is always a man who is confident and secure in HIMSELF that wins the day, regardless of his…
Read MoreThe real reason ‘pickup artists’ ultimately failed, and what men should do instead
I still talk to people these days who were never aware of the huge pickup artist movement that existed about 10 years ago. Allow me to give you a very brief history: A few guys out of Los Angeles developed a system designed to help men (any kind of many from any walk of life)…
Read MoreBefore you approach a woman, ask yourself these 5 questions
Part of the confusion that’s been spread throughout dating (and all social interactions) these days is not knowing what the proper etiquette is for approaching someone, saying hello, or trading a smile. When we think about it, these are some of the most basic of human interactions. Our minds automatically scan a room for faces…
Read MoreThese 7 Questions Will Determine if You’re Sabotaging Your Own Relationships
I’ve learned over the years that most of the advice people seek out when it comes to personal development, dating, or relationships – is simply a reinforcement of what they already think. I find that when people come to me for coaching services, it’s because they want the honest truth and unbiased feedback. But, the…
Read MoreYour 5 Step Guide to Achieving Happiness in Your Life
As someone who coaches driven, ambitious people on how to perform better in life and in love, it is not my job to tell them what to do, as common perception might lead you to conclude. Any good coach’s responsibility is to guide. To ask the right questions, and help YOU find the answer. A…
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