Here’s What True Emotional Intimacy Really Looks Like

The first thing most of us think when we hear the word “intimacy,” is, as we’d expect, the verb of being intimate. The physical reality that manifests itself between two people who love and care for each other. This manifestation, however, is fueled by a deep and meaningful emotional bond that brings us together in…

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How to Prove That You’re (Actually) Different Than Other Men

The fact of the matter is that actions really do speak louder than words. A woman will never believe you if you tell her you are different than the guys who have disappointed her in the past, you have to show her. And not just once, but consistently over time. Trust is not handed over…

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20 Vital Lessons About How Women Think

Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. While, of course, the world’s 8 billion people each hold an individual set of traits and personalities, that doesn’t mean we can’t find some common truths that apply on…

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30 Simple Ways to Become an Amazing Romantic Partner

What does it mean to be a “good partner”? Whether you are a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, spouse, significant other, or [enter term of choice here], most of the same principles apply. It comes down to the simple things. The ways that we listen, pay attention to detail, remember important things, and make the…

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The Most Confident People Tell Themselves These 15 Things

Who‘s writing the story of your life? I mean really, honestly, truly…who’s got the pen? Is it you? Or, is it the multitude of voices in your ear every single day from society and the people around you? Are your thoughts, beliefs, and values really yours, or are they simply modified versions of what you’ve…

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15 Defining Traits of Good Men

When I first started writing on here (way) back in 2013, I was focused on these missions: To help men become even better versions of themselves. To help them understand relationships and attraction. To help them gain confidence, and to stop living in the shadows of others. Now, more than a decade, 40 million+ views…

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Here’s How Men Can Find Their Way Again

I’ve never fit in. Starting from childhood and my first years in school, I experienced bullying, challenges making friends, and as I got older…had absolutely zero success with dating and relationships. The irony of now being a top love and relationship writer, and building a 10+ year career as a private advisor in these areas,…

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Why We Should Stop Calling People “Real”

Alright, I admit it. I did write an article in the past titled “10 Ways To Know You’re Dating A Real Man.” Shortly after, as you can see, I changed the title because I didn’t really like the sound of it. I admit I’d fallen into the trap of endless memes and articles online about…

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The Importance Of Having The Right People In Your Life

One of the things that makes life so fulfilling, is the people we encounter and build relationships with along the way. Any sort of relationship, from a simple chat with our daily mail carrier – to the first meeting of our future spouse, can give us either a moment or a lifetime of happiness. It…

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Why thinking for yourself is the truest freedom.

There is a famous quote by the late Steve Jobs, which I’m sure we have all heard: “Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking.” Read this quote to most people, and they are sure to agree with it – however, do they really understand it? Let’s…

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