Posts Tagged ‘nice guys finish last’
Are You “Nice,” Or Kind? 5 Major Differences
Only one has pure intentions. e’ve all heard the old adage that “nice guys (and gals) finish last.” I’ve been very open about my past as a “nice guy” and all of the challenges that it brought to my life. To overcome these challenges, I didn’t need to stop being good to people, I simply…
Read More10 Ways to Stop Being the Nice Guy who Finishes Last
It’s not the “nice guy” who finishes last. It’s the pushover. Back at the dawn of time, men began using the excuse that “nice guys finish last” to convince themselves that they weren’t responsible for their own dating failures. I know this, because I was one of them. I did everything I thought women (girls,…
Read More5 Clear Differences Between A Good Man And ‘The Nice Guy’
Often times when I write on chivalry and romance, the article’s comment section ends up discussing the appeal of “bad boys” and why women are typically attracted to them over the “nice guy.” Predictably, if we have to talk about why women like bad boys, we also need to talk about why they don’t like ‘nice guys.’ But…
Read More5 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone
When writing articles about chivalry, romance, and relationships – one tends to learn quite a bit about people from comments, emails, and messages. One of the things that I have learned is a prominent issue, is the male race’s avoidance of kindness for fear of being seen as “just a friend.” Particularly when I come…
Read MoreThe Real Reason Nice Guys Finish Last
Recently I was featured on a great podcast interview. One of the questions I was asked was in line with some responses I’ve gotten to my articles before: There are plenty of men out there who are not chivalrous and romantic but are still ‘successful’ on a certain level with women. So, why put in…
Read MoreThe Real Reason Nice Guys Finish Last
You’ll notice a trend in my articles that speak about men being kind, respectful, and loving – particularly towards women. I don’t often use the word ‘nice.’ When I talk about ‘good men’ finishing first, that is a very different message than ‘nice guys’ finishing first. Why? Because it’s true what they say, nice guys…
Read More7 Reasons Good Guys Win In The End
To say “nice guys finish last” is to display a fundamental misunderstanding of what a “nice guy” is or what “finishing last” means. If you mean that a good guy finishes last because he always puts his woman first, then you are correct. But the reality is, it’s not the nice guy who finishes last,…
Read MoreA Letter To The Nice Guys
Dear Nice Guys, I write this to you as a former member of your tribe. I still consider myself a “good guy,” as reflected in my beliefs, writings, and actions – but that is a different animal, as we will discuss. You probably spend much of your time wondering why you remain single after doing…
Read MoreWhy Good Guys Will Finish First
If you’re anything like me, the first couple decades of your life will be filled with both the confidence that you could make the right girl happier than anyone else, and the confusion about why none of them seem to realize it. Through high school, and maybe even some of college, you probably won’t do…
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