What A Healthy Relationship Really Looks Like

With the current state of dating, do we even know what a healthy relationship is anymore? In the points below we’ll discuss what a healthy relationship looks like in real life, not in a fairy tale. _________________________________________ There is no judgment. Happiness in a relationship comes from two teammates who are able to be open…

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Real Intimacy Is 70% Emotional And 30% Physical

REAL intimacy is built through respect, trust, and love. What do you think of when you hear the word intimacy? For most, intimacy is purely physical. We understand it as a code word for something we’d rather not say in public. “Were you…*gasp*…intimate?!” Yet, by placing such focus on the physical aspects of a relationship,…

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7 Reasons The Strongest Relationships Are Built On Friendship

You can have a friendship without a relationship, but you can’t have a relationship without a friendship. Friedrich Nietzsche once said: “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.” This concept serves to teach us the importance of building a foundation for happiness that stretches beyond intimacy into…

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5 Ways To Be The Man Every Woman Is Looking For

You don’t need to be the perfect man to make her happy, just be the man you said you were when you first met her. We often find ourselves overwhelmed with all of dating’s “do’s and don’ts”, but at the end of the day it’s just about finding balance and chemistry. Here are five important…

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Real Men Give A Shit

Caring about others is the ultimate showing of strength. The days of unemotional coldness passing off as strength are over. I am an American male, which means that growing up, much of what I was shown in the mainstream about masculinity was the lie that emotions and strength cannot coexist. We must choose one or…

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10 Real Signs You’ve Finally Found Your Forever Person

It’s hard enough in today’s dating world to find someone that you even want to see more than a few times…so how can you determine if someone is actually “the one?” It may not be as difficult as you think. Happy relationships aren’t just about the inherent qualities that your partner has. While that is…

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What You Do For A Living Doesn’t Define Who You Are As A Person

Times of high unemployment can be dangerous if we equate losing our job with losing our identity. It doesn’t have to be that way. IfI asked you to define who you are right now, what would you say? Many people have told me that they’re a teacher, or a doctor, or an accountant, or a…

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Our Generation’s Inability To Commit Is Costing Us Our Happiness

(I originally published this post on Medium). Whether it be in relationships or work, those who build a stronger foundation over time experience an even deeper level of happiness and fulfillment. Consider the concept of commitment for a moment. When you think of something you’re committed to, how does it make you feel? Perhaps you’re committed to…

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The 5 C’s Of Every Healthy Relationship

Even if you take just one of these away, the entire thing can fall apart like a house of cards. Every person and relationship on the planet is unique, but there are cornerstones and qualities that all happy and healthy relationships share. If even one of these is not present, it can split two people…

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6 Ways To Keep Improving Your Dating Life While On Lockdown

Just because the world slows down, doesn’t mean your chances of finding love have to. Well, this is a new one. How are you supposed to date when everything is closed and you’re supposed to stay 6 feet away from everyone? I understand your pets are happy that you’re quarantined or locked down, but it…

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