These 7 Questions Will Determine if You’re Sabotaging Your Own Relationships

I’ve learned over the years that most of the advice people seek out when it comes to personal development, dating, or relationships – is simply a reinforcement of what they already think. I find that when people come to me for coaching services, it’s because they want the honest truth and unbiased feedback. But, the…

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Your 5 Step Guide to Achieving Happiness in Your Life

As someone who coaches driven, ambitious people on how to perform better in life and in love, it is not my job to tell them what to do, as common perception might lead you to conclude. Any good coach’s responsibility is to guide. To ask the right questions, and help YOU find the answer. A…

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7 Rules for Living a Better Life

As I sit here to write this, I reflect on the past year of my life. On may 8th of 2017 I left Boston with a one-way ticket to Los Angeles, and one suitcase packed with everything I was bringing to my new life. I’d given up my apartment, listed my car for sale, and…

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5 warning signs your work life is hurting your relationship with her

We all desire success. We stay focused and work hard, but at what point does our professional life interfere with our personal life? If we are in a relationship, is there a line to be drawn when work begins to overflow into romance? It is important for many reasons to keep a healthy work/life (or…

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7 brutal truths about why you’re not attracting good men

There are multiple forms of this quote attributed to multiple sources, but the most poignant one goes like this: “The truth will set you free, but first, it will piss you off.” When you look for dating advice online, you have two choices: Find advice that makes you comfortable. Find advice that gives you the…

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On The Nakedness of Our Mortality

This was originally a post on my Instagram page, but the comments were so overwhelming that I wanted to share it here on this blog. On the nakedness of mortality. A year and a half ago, my grandfather passed at 90 years old. Since he was living with my parents, I would visit often and…

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You’ll Never Receive Love from Someone Who Doesn’t Love Themselves

Perhaps one of life’s most universal truths is that you cannot pour water out of an empty cup. Both literal and metaphorical – reminiscent of ‘you can’t get blood from a stone.’ In other words, you simply cannot get something that isn’t there. It’s like trying to pay a bill when you’ve got a bank…

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On The Power of Singledom

As someone who has spent the past 5 years writing about dating and encouraging people to bring romance and dignity back to relationships, I have frequently been met with consistent pushback that sounds something like this: There are no good people left in the world. Nobody wants to put in any effort anymore. I’ve accepted…

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Generation: Disconnected. A Lost Youth in Crisis

We must connect with our youth. Speak to them. Listen to them. Help them understand the progression of life and that things do get better if they’re feeling hopeless.

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Don’t Worry, Nobody Else Knows What The Hell They’re Doing, Either

Don’t be afraid to admit you’re figuring life out as you go along. So is everyone else.

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