Modern Chivalry: Dating Rules of High-Status Men

Times change, and along with them: Social norms change. Technology changes. Acceptable behavior changes (sometimes for better, sometimes for worse), and basically, well, everything changes. We’ve rightfully left behind a lot from our past as our society has evolved and become more conscious about our actions…but the past wasn’t all bad. There are still lessons…

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11 Ways To Show Him Your Love

Great relationships aren’t about give and take, they’re about give and give. Of the hundreds of articles I’ve written, at least 75% are about how men can improve themselves and be better partners for the women in our lives. Here’s what we almost never talk about, though: Men need affection, too. Psychology Today once made…

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11 Life Habits More Men Should Embrace

As we grow older, it’s always interesting to tie our actions and beliefs back to things we observed while we were growing up. Those who were older around us – whether it be parents, grandparents, guardians, or fiends, influence(d) our view of the world in ways that, at the time, we wouldn’t have recognized. As…

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How to date like a man who has his sh*t together

In a world where chivalry and courtship seem to be the stuff of history books, where “Hey, wanna hang out?” via text message is accepted as a date invitation, and men complain that they shouldn’t have to pay for dinner if women want equality – it is plain to see that we need to bring some…

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10 Meaningful Traits that Make a Real Man

What does it mean to be a “real man”? And how has the definition changed over time?

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The Only People Responsible For The Fall of The Gentleman are Men Themselves

It’s time you start holding yourself to higher standards than society holds you to.

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Deliberate Dating: 5 Reasons The Best Relationships Are Built On Purpose

If we want our relationships to start lasting, we need to start building a solid foundation for them.

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If You Want a Man to Put in More Effort, Give Him a Purpose

This may be a bit of a ‘What came first, the chicken, or the egg?” scenario, but hear me out. There seems to be a direct correlation between men putting less effort into a relationship, and men having fewer responsibilities in said relationship. **EDIT** Judging by some comments received, I need to clarify further: I…

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You Can’t Have The Fairy Tale, But You Can Have Prince Charming

“Where are all of these gentlemen you talk about all the time?” When I started writing over 4 years ago, my mission was (and still is) to bring back the concept of men being gentlemen – and update what it really means in modern day society. Being respectful, chivalrous, aware, connected (to one’s self, and…

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10 Reasons Why Old School Love Wins and You’re Losing

Love. Romance. Courtship. Etiquette. Manners. What are these foreign concepts that seem to only be found in dusty pages of history books?   We seem to have lost sight of what it takes to build real, solid, healthy relationships – and I believe that those of us who actually value them are feeling the pain.…

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