The Four Necessary Pieces Of Any Happy Relationship

I recently had a discussion with a very insightful woman about what she feels to be the four building blocks of any relationship – all of which must be in place for the relationship to work. I like to think of these as four quarters you would attempt to trade in for a dollar – without…

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Relationships Are Not Easy, But They Are Worth It

I feel as though a lot of people who read my articles are under the impression that I am suggesting eventually someone is going to come into their life and every puzzle piece will simply pop into place. Doves will fly out from behind you, a chorus will follow you around on every date, you…

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8 Signs Your Relationship Is Built To Last

I was watching an old dating show recently that was almost like ‘The Dating Game’ where someone would choose a contestant based on their credentials (for lack of a better term), and then narrow down one person of the three to go on a date with. More than once, the people decided to not even…

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Why Selfish People Are Incapable Of Loving You

There are many perceptions of what “true love” looks like in today’s society. People attempt to quantify it or put characteristics or actions or labels on it – but it is a difficult thing to define since every situation is unique. Though, once we filter through all of the pop culture interpretations and checklists of…

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How To Identify Your Own Love Needs

One of the best, but perhaps most challenging things about love, is that each of us feel, express, and experience it differently. Perhaps this is why it is such a difficult emotion to explain, because of how subjective it can be. What this teaches us is that the person we end up with may not…

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Why You Need To Stop Giving Your Heart To The Wrong People

Take a moment to reflect on the society that we are living in. A society of participation trophies – awards for just showing up. A society of some high school football teams who have stopped keeping scores at games so nobody’s feelings get hurt. A society of endless internet memes that proclaim that everyone deserves…

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Where Have All The Gentlemen Gone?

I am constantly baffled by women’s perception of the “men” of our generation. The generalizations put forth these days almost makes me embarrassed to be a millennial, member of Generation-Y, or whatever you want to call it – simply because I might get grouped together with them and assumed to be similar. On the flip…

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It Goes Both Ways: Why Everyone Can Be Romantic

Being a male blogger who discusses how men can be better in life and in love comes with its ups and downs – like anything else in life I suppose. One of the major criticisms I receive most often, though, is how I make it sound like romance and relationships are one-sided when I speak…

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5 Ways To Finally Stop Dating The Wrong Men

If you found your way to this article, it may be because you are the type of woman who constantly finds herself trying to “fix” a man, or entering into a relationship with someone who is not quite on your level of maturity or emotional stability. But that’s okay, because you’re going to change him…

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This Is Why Chivalry And Equality CAN Coexist

June 5th, 2015 was the 2 year anniversary of this blog’s inception. During its growth and development I have had much feedback on my articles, both good and bad. One of the most consistent comments however, is from men who tell me that if women want equality, they should therefore not expect men to be chivalrous. Can…

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