Posts Tagged ‘Advice’
A Response To: ‘Confessions Of A Serial Cheater’
A friend linked me to this (borderline ridiculous) article, Confessions of a Serial Cheater, that I was compelled to respond to. Where do I begin? The anonymous (for good reason) storyteller begins by openly discussing his consistent cheating habit. The first (of 10? 15? Maybe 20?) time he cheated on his current fiancee started with…
Read MoreDeveloping trust in a relationship.
Distrust in a relationship is like termites in a house that slowly eat away at the foundation until the entire thing collapses. The literal definition of trust is: Reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, surety, etc., of a person or thing; confidence. Obviously, this doesn’t happen overnight, and there are a few warning signs to spot someone who may not be being entirely honest with you. Pay close…
Read MoreWhy You Shouldn’t Give Up On Love
Love hurts. Love stinks. Love sucks. …No, it doesn’t. Being betrayed, cheated on, lied to, broken up with, thinking someone is different than they are – those things all suck. Love, does not. Our generation has a considerably difficult time finding love. Many times they find a hookup at a club that lasts for a few…
Read MoreWhy It Doesn’t Matter When You Go “All The Way”
That’s right, I said it. For as long as I can remember, there has always been a terrible stereotype about girls who “put out” too soon. This could be the first, second, third, or however many dates she personally thinks are “right.” The words thrown at girls who do this are usually mean and unjustified.…
Read MoreCommunication: The key to a solid relationship.
This is a big one. Many people put up walls to protect themselves from getting hurt, but you could be keeping out the ONE person who isn’t going to act like the rest. Isn’t that what you want to find? It’s easy to group together entire genders when we’ve had some negative experiences – but…
Read MoreCommunication: The key to a solid relationship.
This is a big one. Many people put up walls to protect themselves from getting hurt, but you could be keeping out the ONE person who isn’t going to act like the rest. Isn’t that what you want to find? It’s easy to group together entire genders when we’ve had some negative experiences –…
Read MoreHow to keep sabotaging your relationships
I witness this phenomenon more frequently than I’d care to, and I’m sure many of you do as well. The more I observe, the more I think it’s mostly prominent in the ‘party scene.’ The unexplained merry-go-round of dating. The same girls willingly circulating around the same guys, all of whom usually have a terrible reputation. A…
Read MoreThe Right Person Will Love Everything About You That The Wrong People Took For Granted
For anyone attempting “dating” in the 21st century, there is an overwhelming question of whether or not our generation actually appreciates the qualities many of us were taught to possess by our parents, grandparents, or hell – even Disney movies. In an age that seems to be overrun by the self-absorbed, those who are perpetual…
Read MoreCreative Dating: You can do better than “Dinner and a movie.”
*Disclaimer: The following paragraphs mostly apply to taking out a girl that you’ve got real interest in, not just a fling or someone you can’t see yourself with for very long. I think it’s safe to say that “dinner and a movie” has been the go-to date plan since, well, movies were invented. Don’t get…
Read More(Video) Why Men and Women Can’t Be “Just Friends”
This is an often discussed topic among men and women – can they just be friends? Typically, women will say yes, but men will say no. In this short video, I explain my opinion about where and why this separation occurs and why I side with the men’s position, that being just friends, is…
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