20 Vital Lessons About How Women Think
Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. While, of course, the world’s 8 billion people each hold an individual set of traits and personalities, that doesn’t mean we can’t find some common truths that apply on…
Read MoreModern Chivalry: Dating Rules of High-Status Men
Times change, and along with them: Social norms change. Technology changes. Acceptable behavior changes (sometimes for better, sometimes for worse), and basically, well, everything changes. We’ve rightfully left behind a lot from our past as our society has evolved and become more conscious about our actions…but the past wasn’t all bad. There are still lessons…
Read MoreHow to Tell if Someone Truly Deserves Your Love
The truth of life and love is that many people along the way will desire you. They’ll desire to be in your presence, desire to get to know you, desire you based on physical attraction, and desire your affection in return. They won’t, all, however…deserve you. Before we dive into this discussion, I need to…
Read MoreThese 15 Conversations Will Decide Your Future as a Couple
I’ve noticed a trend lately in conversations with my private clients, their relationships split apart because they overlooked or ignored red flags or incompatibilities early on in their relationships. I have long made the point that the small things we overlook in the beginning of a relationship are very often the exact things that come…
Read More30 Simple Ways to Become an Amazing Romantic Partner
What does it mean to be a “good partner”? Whether you are a husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, spouse, significant other, or [enter term of choice here], most of the same principles apply. It comes down to the simple things. The ways that we listen, pay attention to detail, remember important things, and make the…
Read More15 Duties of All Good Men in Relationships
If there’s one thing that guys usually hate, it’s being told what to do. Many will resist and rebel just for the sake of pushing back against authority, even if that “authority” is their own personal decisions. What I mean by this : Sometimes, you make a choice that comes along with a set of guidelines,…
Read MoreYour Relationship Should Meet These 15 Needs
There is a big difference between “wants” and “needs” that often go overlooked when determining what is best for us in a relationship. A ‘want’ is something that, well…we want. There is, however, a deeper and more fundamental need that we are seeking to have filled by that “want.” In other words: The want is…
Read MoreThe Most Confident People Tell Themselves These 15 Things
Who‘s writing the story of your life? I mean really, honestly, truly…who’s got the pen? Is it you? Or, is it the multitude of voices in your ear every single day from society and the people around you? Are your thoughts, beliefs, and values really yours, or are they simply modified versions of what you’ve…
Read More15 Defining Traits of Good Men
When I first started writing on here (way) back in 2013, I was focused on these missions: To help men become even better versions of themselves. To help them understand relationships and attraction. To help them gain confidence, and to stop living in the shadows of others. Now, more than a decade, 40 million+ views…
Read More12 Things You Deserve in Your Relationship
How deeply do you believe that you truly deserve the love, intimacy, and treatment that you desire in a relationship? It’s one thing to want it, but it’s a whole other to really believe that you deserve it. The challenge lies in that no amount of wanting will replace the knowledge of deserving. Only when you understand what you deserve, will you change your…
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