You Need More Than Love: 12 Signs of Real Compatibility
What is it that makes two good people good for each other? The idea of compatibility is, for some strange reason, often overlooked when it comes to choosing a romantic partner. I believe we easily get caught up in the excitement of adventure, or the emotional rush of being with a new person, or the…
Read MoreHere’s How Men Can Find Their Way Again
I’ve never fit in. Starting from childhood and my first years in school, I experienced bullying, challenges making friends, and as I got older…had absolutely zero success with dating and relationships. The irony of now being a top love and relationship writer, and building a 10+ year career as a private advisor in these areas,…
Read MoreGood Men Possess These 12 Important Traits
What is it that makes for a “good man”? Despite what our image-focused society tells us, it has nothing to do with his level of income, how he dresses, the car he drives, the friends he surrounds himself with, or who he’s in a relationship with. For many, though, the allure of an appealing personal…
Read More15 Timeless Dating Manners Women Wish You Knew
Photo: Us on our first wedding anniversary! Building a relationship with someone is a tricky thing. It takes proactive and deliberate action — yet it’s not something that comes with a formula or blueprint. There are no guarantees, yet there are strategies you can put in place that work in your favor. For men, we are traditionally…
Read More25 Life-Changing Lessons About Love
There’s an old Tony Robbins quote that says “success leaves clues.” The idea is that we can learn from people who’ve already gone where we want to go. Not in the sense of copying them, but in that, we can see what worked (and didn’t work) to shorten the time of figuring it out ourselves.…
Read More12 Green Flags Of An Emotionally Mature Man
Emotional maturity is the result of life experiences and intentional growth that bring a man on a path of personal evolution. It empowers him to show up in the world (and in his relationships) as the healthiest and most authentic version of himself. The challenge often lies in knowing just who has actually done this…
Read MoreProject Even Higher Confidence By Eliminating These 10 Behaviors
What makes someone “high value?” It’s not rooted in how much they make, or what they look like, how many friends they have, or their relationship status…High value people simply decide to recognize their own worth and show up in the world accordingly. They project their confidence in their own value through the things they…
Read MoreThe Most Attractive Men Understand These 10 Things
Men are more confused now than ever before when it comes to dating — and who can blame them? Men’s roles in virtually all areas of life are shifting, which presents some uncertainty. In a world where women are outperforming and out-earning men more and more frequently, where is the value that men bring to their lives…
Read MoreCouples Who Stay Together Forever Do These 10 Things
Photo: Mrs. Rachel Sama and Mr. James Michael Sama If I asked you to think about the happiest couples you know, who pops into your mind first? For me, it’s quite obviously my parents who’ve been happily together for over 40 years, and also my late grandparents who were together for over 60 years. I…
Read More15 Unspoken Worries That Men Keep Hidden
Men have a reputation for being generally stoic, unemotional, non-expressive, and disconnected from their feelings. In most cases, though, this is the opposite of the truth. The truth isn’t men’s lack of feelings, but instead, the lack of expression of these feelings. There are a myriad of social and biological reasons why men more commonly…
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