Posts by James Michael Sama
8 Ways Dating Changes As You Get Older
I’m not old, by any means. But I have had some, let’s call them, ‘accelerated’ dating experiences where a lot of perspective was gained in a shorter amount of time than normal – whatever normal is. Aside from that, while I am not old, I am still older, and have done my best to be observant about…
Read MoreWe Are Equal, But Not The Same
In my recent support of the new #HeForShe gender equality campaign, I find myself re-fighting a battle I have been working for over a year to win – the discussion of whether or not chivalry and equality can co-exist. People urge me to choose a side. They tell me that if I am going to…
Read MoreJoin Me In Supporting The #HeForShe Gender Equality Movement
In past articles, I have written about the importance of gender equality as well as the true definition of feminism, which is as follows: The doctrine advocating social, political, and all other rights of women equal to those of men. While the execution of actually solidifying this concept in modern society has proved to be surprisingly difficult,…
Read MoreBad Boys Or Nice Guys: What Women Really Want
I have an old friend that some of you may have heard of before. His name is Steve Santagati and he has had a brand for quite awhile called “Bad Boys Finish First.” Steve regularly appears on many television shows as a relationship expert and is also a New York Times Bestseller. Steve and I get…
Read More10 Ways Your Partner Should Make You Feel
These days, I get email after email after Facebook message after tweet after text from people about their relationships, or someone they’re considering a relationship with. And honestly, more often than not it makes me cringe. It makes me cringe because I genuinely do not feel that we are doing the best we can when…
Read MoreThe One Rare Quality Men Want In A Woman
I was asked a very interesting question once that kept me thinking for quite awhile, so I decided to write something on the topic. I certainly don’t want to sound cynical or judgmental, but I have brushed over the topic lightly in previous articles and I believe it is something a lot of people can…
Read More8 Things Men Want In A Relationship
Men say women are complicated, and women say men are complicated – but for different reasons. Men say women are complicated because of the perception that they say one thing when they really mean something else. Women say men are complicated because we never say what we really want in the first place, so women…
Read MoreIn With The Old: 7 Classic Dating Habits To Bring Back
There is no doubt that technological and societal advancements have improved dating and relationships in many ways. If we write someone a letter or a note it’s because we want to, not because it’s our only mode of communication with them. If we want to meet someone new, we can go online and don’t have to rely…
Read More7 Dating Lessons Learned From Experience
As they say, experience is the teacher of all things. Given how unique and dynamic individual personalities are and therefore your interactions with each of these personalities, it is essentially impossible to predict how your next date with a different person is going to go. But what we can do is take certain lessons from…
Read MoreWhy We Will Never Stop Rape With Nail Polish
You may remember hearing a few weeks back about a new type of nail polish that (male) students at North Carolina University recently developed. The polish is designed to change color when exposed to popular date-rape drugs such as Rohypnol, Xanax and GHB (Gamma-Hydroxybutyric acid. Needless to say, any effort put forth in order to reduce…
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