6 Reasons You’re Still Single (Part 2 – Guys)


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I know, man. Girls are just crazy these days. There are like, literally NO good girls left. I mean, I was out at the club every single weekend (and sometimes Thursdays cuz that’s when the college girls go) for the past like, 6 months. Man they are ALL the same…right?

Guys, if spewing nonsense like the above makes you feel better, then go for it…but, sometimes, the problem isn’t always someone else.

Here are 6 reasons why you’re still single, bro.

You’re a social media pervert.


Overly forward comments on Facebook to girls you don’t know is the new yelling out of car windows. It didn’t work then, and it doesn’t work now.

Plus, newsflash: Everyone can see what you write on Facebook!

Women get bombarded with compliments daily online, what makes you so different? Is your extra adjective when describing her “amazingly intoxicating sexy beauty” going to send a solar flare up into the sky above her house from your profile with your name written in it?

I don’t think so. You are not Batman. Cut it out.


You can’t conversate.

I bet you didn’t even know conversate was a word. Well, it isn’t, but I’m making a point here.

If you’re not able to think on your feet or hold a solid, intelligent conversation – you will not hold the attention of a decent woman, either. I get it man, pretty girls are scary. Talking to them is hard. But, you gotta do it. You gotta be able to get past “hi.”

Look around. What’s going on in the room? Where are you? What is she wearing? Does she smell nice? Does her purse match her shoes? (Hint: It probably does).

Try to get yourself some ideas of what to talk about before approaching a woman. Small details nobody else would notice are a good place to start. A relationship can’t happen without a date, and a date can’t happen without a simple hello.


You’re broke.

This isn’t what you think: I’m not saying that girls are gold-diggers and only want guys with money (well, not all of them).

I can say this because I’ve been broke. I was also single when I was broke. Are the two completely related? Not really…but being broke limits you drastically.

You can’t go out and do as many fun things, you don’t feel as confident asking women on dates because then you’ve got to take them somewhere nice, you probably don’t have somewhere you’d want to take them back to…and in general your confidence is just not in its prime state.

Don’t let this take you out of the game. Use it as motivation to get off of your ass and make something of yourself. Women don’t just like men because they have money – they like them because having money shows that you’re ambitious, and you have goals and dreams in life.


You’re a dick.

What is up with guys who are just generally jerks these days? Chivalry, romance, and kindness are foreign words to them. What’s your deal, man? It’s easy to be nice – this isn’t third grade where you show a girl you like her by making fun of her.

Women (not little girls) these days are bold, confident, educated, and know what they want. What they don’t want is someone who will mistreat them or make them feel like they’re settling for less than they deserve.

Don’t be that guy.


You have a reputation.

Ha! You thought this was just one for the girls, didn’t you? That you could go out all the time, take home whoever you want, and it’d make you look good because then girls would think that other girls like you, so you must have something to offer.

Yeah, an STD.

A self-respecting woman won’t want to feel like she’s going to have to compete for your attention with other girls, or that you could run off with the next hottest thing at any time.

Don’t be a manwhore, women talk to each other – if you didn’t already know. If you get around, so will your reputation.


You’re just not ready.

It’s okay dude, not every reason why you’re single is a bad one. It’s alright to wait until you’re truly ready to settle down, in order to do so. In fact, it’s a great idea.

Too many guys jump into relationships when they’re not ready. They commit, but not really. They kinda sorta put effort in. They hurt her feelings. Maybe, they even have a kid with someone they barely like, let alone want to marry.

Staying single is a better alternative than all of the above. Just listen to yourself and what you truly want – when the right girl comes around, you will know, and throw away all the nonsense.

Trust me.

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  1. silvio Ricca on November 12, 2013 at 9:59 pm

    boy james. you hit this one right in the noggin and touched the brain with a bunch of thinking for guys to do, A remarkable job well done. Love nono

  2. L on November 14, 2013 at 1:03 pm

    “You’re just not ready” YES YES YES. this list can go for girls, too! You should compile them into one big list.

    But again, slut shaming is a thing for guys, too! Definitely see where you’re going but having a past shouldn’t get in the way of your future with someone. I think people need to be safe and make sure they are fully aware of and ready for the decisions they make. Don’t forget that some people have sex because they like to have sex, not for attention or because they want people to see them a certain way. What should be said is make your private life PRIVATE, or as private as you want it.

  3. Kristen on November 15, 2013 at 8:19 pm

    actually, conversate is an incorrect use of converse. it’s not really a word. interesting article, though. 😉

    • James Michael Sama on November 15, 2013 at 8:23 pm

      I know…that’s exactly what I said in the article… 😉

  4. Morgul Lord on November 17, 2013 at 5:05 am

    Speak for yourself: You are out of touch my little friend.

    1. I like to keep my money to myself, I like a good ROI.
    2. I’m happier this way, like WAY happier.
    3. I’m tired of women and their misandry.
    4. I dont need women to feel fulfilled or happy etc.
    5. I dont pander to women.
    6. I’m not a whiteknight or mangina
    Ready for the Bonus:
    7.I took the redpill.

    • Jeremiah on November 19, 2013 at 7:01 am

      ^ This.

      This article somehow state a little bit of fact but not everyone is single because of this reason. It’s funny because it’s like this article says that being single is miserable. I prefer to be single to avoid drama and all kinds of bullshit.

      anyway, ladies out there check this article. link below:

      • Lisa Marie on November 20, 2013 at 5:44 pm

        You only find drama and bullshit in your relationship if you date the sort of humans who bring that behaviour into it. If you find yourself with someone like that more often than not, maybe the problem lies with your filtration process rather than with the general populace, no?

  5. Adela Tamayo on November 18, 2013 at 11:08 pm

    i love the line saying this isn’t the third grade where you show a girl you like her by making fun of her all i could think was it didn’t work for me then or in junior high or high school or college mean guys just make me want to be mean to them back and not in a flirt way

  6. iheartmess on November 21, 2013 at 4:39 am

    Agreee, totally can’t conversate!

  7. hugh hefner on November 27, 2013 at 11:59 am

    intelligent conversation with a pretty girl? thats almost an oxymoron, ive been on dates and even dated very pretty girls and just got soooo bored of them after a month or two…intelligence is damn sexy but rare to find it in pretty girls…so im content with ms average with brains 🙂

  8. TheTruth on May 15, 2016 at 2:50 pm

    Career women are keeping a Good man like me Single today.

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