I know, man. Girls are just crazy these days. There are like, literally NO good girls left. I mean, I was out at the club every single weekend (and sometimes Thursdays cuz that’s when the college girls go) for the past like, 6 months. Man they are ALL the same…right?
Guys, if spewing nonsense like the above makes you feel better, then go for it…but, sometimes, the problem isn’t always someone else.
Here are 6 reasons why you’re still single, bro.
You’re a social media pervert.
Overly forward comments on Facebook to girls you don’t know is the new yelling out of car windows. It didn’t work then, and it doesn’t work now.
Plus, newsflash: Everyone can see what you write on Facebook!
Women get bombarded with compliments daily online, what makes you so different? Is your extra adjective when describing her “amazingly intoxicating sexy beauty” going to send a solar flare up into the sky above her house from your profile with your name written in it?
I don’t think so. You are not Batman. Cut it out.
You can’t conversate.
I bet you didn’t even know conversate was a word. Well, it isn’t, but I’m making a point here.
If you’re not able to think on your feet or hold a solid, intelligent conversation – you will not hold the attention of a decent woman, either. I get it man, pretty girls are scary. Talking to them is hard. But, you gotta do it. You gotta be able to get past “hi.”
Look around. What’s going on in the room? Where are you? What is she wearing? Does she smell nice? Does her purse match her shoes? (Hint: It probably does).
Try to get yourself some ideas of what to talk about before approaching a woman. Small details nobody else would notice are a good place to start. A relationship can’t happen without a date, and a date can’t happen without a simple hello.
This isn’t what you think: I’m not saying that girls are gold-diggers and only want guys with money (well, not all of them).
I can say this because I’ve been broke. I was also single when I was broke. Are the two completely related? Not really…but being broke limits you drastically.
You can’t go out and do as many fun things, you don’t feel as confident asking women on dates because then you’ve got to take them somewhere nice, you probably don’t have somewhere you’d want to take them back to…and in general your confidence is just not in its prime state.
Don’t let this take you out of the game. Use it as motivation to get off of your ass and make something of yourself. Women don’t just like men because they have money – they like them because having money shows that you’re ambitious, and you have goals and dreams in life.
You’re a dick.
What is up with guys who are just generally jerks these days? Chivalry, romance, and kindness are foreign words to them. What’s your deal, man? It’s easy to be nice – this isn’t third grade where you show a girl you like her by making fun of her.
Women (not little girls) these days are bold, confident, educated, and know what they want. What they don’t want is someone who will mistreat them or make them feel like they’re settling for less than they deserve.
Don’t be that guy.
You have a reputation.
Ha! You thought this was just one for the girls, didn’t you? That you could go out all the time, take home whoever you want, and it’d make you look good because then girls would think that other girls like you, so you must have something to offer.
Yeah, an STD.
A self-respecting woman won’t want to feel like she’s going to have to compete for your attention with other girls, or that you could run off with the next hottest thing at any time.
Don’t be a manwhore, women talk to each other – if you didn’t already know. If you get around, so will your reputation.
You’re just not ready.
It’s okay dude, not every reason why you’re single is a bad one. It’s alright to wait until you’re truly ready to settle down, in order to do so. In fact, it’s a great idea.
Too many guys jump into relationships when they’re not ready. They commit, but not really. They kinda sorta put effort in. They hurt her feelings. Maybe, they even have a kid with someone they barely like, let alone want to marry.
Staying single is a better alternative than all of the above. Just listen to yourself and what you truly want – when the right girl comes around, you will know, and throw away all the nonsense.
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- 6 Reasons You’re Still Single (Part 1 – Girls) (jamesmsama.wordpress.com)