5 Signs You’ve Been Putting Yourself Last For Too Long

You can’t pour water from an empty cup. Many of us are taught that caring for others is a noble trait, and often times we garner a sense of significance or contribution from it. While it is important to be a positive influence in the lives of others, many of us fail to draw a line to…

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To Find “The One” You Must First Become “The One”

We don’t attract what we desire, we attract what we project. Dating is difficult. There are a lot of people out there who don’t (or can’t) properly communicate, who aren’t looking for real commitment, or who aren’t even sure what a healthy relationship looks like at this point. Dating apps are frustrating, messages don’t get…

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Becoming a Stepdad is Both a Challenge and an Honor

It should be called “step” parent because you are “stepping” up in to a new and important role. Said my friend Dave a few weeks ago. “Man, if you told me a year ago I’d be on the phone with you and I’d hear a baby crying in the background, I’d never believe you.” I…

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10 Things To Give The Woman Who Has Everything

Society has so deeply programmed men to believe their value is determined by professional success that it’s difficult to step outside of that when it comes to relationships. This is why [some] men stray away from dating successful women. They’re not sure what they could provide her with if it’s not financially driven. Here are…

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The 11 Point Guide to Being an Even Better Partner

How can we, as men, be the best possible partner to the woman in our life? What are the best ways that we can make her feel supported and cared for? It’s not as much of a mystery as it seems. This article is an expansion on The 10 Point Guide to Becoming a More Attractive…

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Real Intimacy Is 70% Emotional And 30% Physical

REAL intimacy is built through respect, trust, and love. What do you think of when you hear the word intimacy? For most, intimacy is purely physical. We understand it as a code word for something we’d rather not say in public. “Were you…*gasp*…intimate?!” Yet, by placing such focus on the physical aspects of a relationship,…

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5 Ways To Be The Man Every Woman Is Looking For

You don’t need to be the perfect man to make her happy, just be the man you said you were when you first met her. We often find ourselves overwhelmed with all of dating’s “do’s and don’ts”, but at the end of the day it’s just about finding balance and chemistry. Here are five important…

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Real Men Give A Shit

Caring about others is the ultimate showing of strength. The days of unemotional coldness passing off as strength are over. I am an American male, which means that growing up, much of what I was shown in the mainstream about masculinity was the lie that emotions and strength cannot coexist. We must choose one or…

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The 5 C’s Of Every Healthy Relationship

Even if you take just one of these away, the entire thing can fall apart like a house of cards. Every person and relationship on the planet is unique, but there are cornerstones and qualities that all happy and healthy relationships share. If even one of these is not present, it can split two people…

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What You Do For A Living Doesn’t Define Who You Are As A Person

Times of high unemployment can be dangerous if we equate losing our job with losing our identity. It doesn’t have to be that way. IfI asked you to define who you are right now, what would you say? Many people have told me that they’re a teacher, or a doctor, or an accountant, or a…

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