Drawing The Line: When Is Harassment Actually Harassment?

I’m sure many of you have seen this interesting video, as it has generated over five million YouTube views in a single day and is climbing fast. Before I get into the topic at hand, I have made it very clear in past aticles that I am against street harassment and men really need to pull…

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It Goes Both Ways: 10 Ways She Can Be Romantic Too

As a man writing from a male perspective, my focus is primarily to challenge both myself and my fellow men to put in more effort and do better when it comes to dating, relationships, and life in general. That is after all, the primary theme of this website. One thing I typically notice though, is…

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Why You Should Make More People Take The Stairs

It is no secret that people are frustrated with the state of the dating world these days. With statistics showing over half of American adults being single, clearly something has to change (at least, if a relationship is what you want). Here is one of the big problems I think is perpetuating this widespread dissatisfaction: Not enough…

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Why You Should Stop Trying To Get Women To Date You

That’s right, I said it. Guys, you need to stop trying to get women to date you. You need to stop trying to figure out what to say or what to do or what magic potion or pickup line or routine is going to magically ‘get her’ to go out with you. Many times when…

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When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Believe Them

The title of this article is a quote by Maya Angelou. A quote that most of us probably think back on situations in our past and say “I should have listened to Maya.” It is so difficult to find someone in today’s society that I think many of us get a little wide-eyed when somebody…

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One Simple Way To Become More Physically Attractive [Instantly]

It is no secret that we live in an image-centric society. We are constantly bombarded by images of beauty, whether it be a billboard, advertisement on the side of a bus, or an advertisement that pops up on the side of our favorite website. It takes little more than a glimpse at the cover of…

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Great Expectations: The Importance Of Honesty In Dating

Dating these days is a challenge. Anyone who is single can relate to that. We are filtering through an entire world full of potential partners and gradually narrowing it down as we go. Who lives close enough to us, who are we attracted to, who shares interests with us, who do we feel the chemistry…

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One Simple Way To Know He’s Serious About You

I received a message from someone the other day that made me realize the importance of covering this topic. The message was as follows: “Do you notice so many people just settling with cyber dating? Like they become so busy they just settle for video and texting all day and then never seeing each other?…

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No Excuses: 10 Things Good Men Will Never Do

I find lately that any time I write an article outlining certain traits of men or how we “should” or “shouldn’t” act in a relationship (I have to be careful with those words because people often accuse me of telling everyone how to act…) that I get plenty of backlash from those who disagree with what…

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Bringing Back Honor: Why Men Of The World Need To Do Better

My fellow gentlemen, I’m sure I am not alone in noticing what seems to be a bit of an unnerving trend that is unfolding around us. It feels as though we are being complained about more than we are being praised. We are being avoided more than we are being desired. We are being ignored…

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