The Only Dating Rule You’ll Ever Need

How many dating advice articles do you think are floating around online? Hundreds of thousands? Millions? More? I can tell you that this is the 477th article on this website, most of which are on the topic(s) of dating and relationships. When you come across articles on this topic, you often find ‘rules’ or ‘guidelines’ […]

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7 Reasons To Choose The Gentleman Over The Bad Boy

Women are notorious for liking “bad boy” types and often times, snubbing the good guy. While the difference between a good guy and one who is so nice he could be considered a doormat, is an important one to define – the man who prides himself on his character and integrity should be acknowledged as […]

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You Don’t Need Perfection To Find Magic

I received a message once from a reader that I thought raised an interesting topic of discussion. The message read as follows: Hello James! So… I have to propose a question to you that a friend recently asked me. First you should know that I am an avid daily reader of your blog and I […]

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7 Things That Make A Woman Sexy

The word “sexy” in modern day society has often become synonymous with the matched drum-beats and stiletto steps made famous by Victoria’s Secret advertisements. While that is sexy, it is a very ‘high level’ approach to what the word really means. Meaning, we see it from afar, but don’t get into the details of it. Many of […]

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The Secret To Understanding Women

The female mind is one of the most intriguing enigmas known to man. It can be fascinating, or frustrating, both for men and women. Men want to understand women, naturally, to be “better” with them, and build stronger relationships; both intimately and in other aspects of life. And women want to understand themselves (don’t we […]

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8 Standards Of Conduct For The Modern Gentleman

When writing about the topics of being what could be considered in modern society a “gentleman” or a “lady,” I am often surprised by the backlash. Whether it is being called a sexist for actually recognizing the biological and behavioral differences between men and women, or those who feel personally insulted that they may not […]

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Please Vote For JamesMSama.com As Best Dating Blog 2014!

Hello all! I don’t usually ask for favors but I would love to have another award for this blog on the books, and I can only do it with your help! I had no idea voting started for these awards but I am nominated and far behind because of it! Please please find JamesMSama.com on this […]

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15 Things Women Want In A Relationship

It is often discussed how difficult it is to understand women. While many times this may seem to be the case, I don’t think it necessarily has to be. I think we all are hard to understand sometimes – we even have a hard time understanding ourselves. I know I do. But if we really observe, pay attention, […]

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10 Ways A Good Woman Will Make You A Better Man

As men, we’ve all been there. The difficult relationships where the woman you’re dating brings more drama than happiness to your life. Where her immaturity or jealousy stresses you out. Where you question if being in a relationship is even something you want in the first place. Particularly in our generation(s), we see many young people […]

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5 Overlooked Qualities Of A Great Romantic Partner

I have a great friend who is a very successful businessman. He is one of those people who I would listen to and follow basically any piece of advice he gives. One of the interesting things he always says is that many times, if you want to be successful in business, you should not pursue the glamorous […]

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