Posts Tagged ‘motivation’

7 Mindsets To Break The Negative Patterns Holding You Back

Many of us hold ourselves back with negative beliefs about ourselves or our abilities. Here’s how to overcome them. How many people do you think are capable of more than they’re currently doing? Odds are, the first person who came to mind reading that was yourself. It’s okay, everyone feels that way now and then. We…

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How To Eliminate Negative Self-Talk

The way we speak to ourselves can quite literally shape the reality that we live in. I was talking to someone I’m coaching last week and she told me: “I always date men who are bad for me.” I encouraged her to reframe this thinking to start saying “I used to date men who were…

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Insights From a Bachelor Turned Stepdad at 35

“I never thought I’d call you and hear a baby in the background.” It’s 6:00 AM. In a previous life this would mean I’d have another hour or so before rolling out of bed, grabbing something highly caffeinated, and sitting down to write, or scroll, or just chill for a bit. Today, the house is full…

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Be Willing to Suck

Every expert to ever live was once a beginner. Their greatest advantage was the willingness to start from square one and refuse to give up. Think of how many things we never accomplish because we aren’t willing to suck at first. How many people have avoided joining a gym (pre-Covid) because they were embarrassed of…

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How To Stay True To Yourself At All Times

How do we stay connected to our true identity and purpose while living in a world that is always trying to tell us who we’re supposed to be? Let’s think about the concept of identity for a moment. It seems simple at first, the basic fundamental idea of who you are. Your name is Susan,…

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Everyone Assumes I Own My Girlfriend’s Businesses

You guessed it, it’s because I’m a dude. I grew up in an entrepreneurial family. Both of my parents have always owned their own businesses since I was born, so I never knew anything else. I saw my dad go to work each day, and my mom work at home producing her goods which she…

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What You Do For A Living Doesn’t Define Who You Are As A Person

Times of high unemployment can be dangerous if we equate losing our job with losing our identity. It doesn’t have to be that way. IfI asked you to define who you are right now, what would you say? Many people have told me that they’re a teacher, or a doctor, or an accountant, or a…

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Now Is The Time To Turn Your Passion Into Profits

We are in the third week of unemployment claims in the millions, totaling around 16.8 million (reported) jobless claims. Now, more than ever, innovation and creativity will fuel the economy. About four years ago I was laid off. I was working at a small PR firm in Boston managing social media strategy for a variety…

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6 Ways To Keep Improving Your Dating Life While On Lockdown

Just because the world slows down, doesn’t mean your chances of finding love have to. Well, this is a new one. How are you supposed to date when everything is closed and you’re supposed to stay 6 feet away from everyone? I understand your pets are happy that you’re quarantined or locked down, but it…

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We Can’t Be Better Partners Until We Become Better Men

It’s been awhile since I’ve written something on here and I wanted to come back with a strong and unfiltered opinion. What else is new, right? It certainly seems to me that men are letting themselves slip. One could argue that women aren’t holding high enough standards for men when it comes to dating, relationships,…

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